Generally speaking I'm a pretty upbeat person. I'll try to explain why I am here when I find the appropriate place

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She Is Not My Daughter (originally Posted As A Confession, But Maybe It Belongs Here Instead) I blame this entire event on the internet, here is the story (long version) I am divorced because my spouse decided that they not only didn't want children, but actually didn't even like... [more]
  • I Have Been Single For Way Too Long

    Think I Might Be Miserable? Think Again lets see... I've been single for..2 plus decades! Yikes! you say? perhaps. Over that time I've discovered that I really am a very good person (now) and I just don't need anyone to "validate" … [more]
  • I Think Being a Parent Is the Most Difficult Job

    Balancing Act Its a delicate balancing act for sure. Trusting and believing in your teenage daughter and being concerned for her safety and well-being. I don't "worry" pre-se, but having been a teenag… [more]
  • I Love My Daughter With All My Heart

    Fathers Day, My Very First One. & I Had A Tiff With My Daughter Soon it will be Fathers day, My very first one. My daughter is not an infant, rather she is almost 20. The other day we had what you might call a falling out. I never yell (I would if there was … [more]
  • I Family

    Trapped!!! HA! you're trapped aren't you? Not only do you care about me worse yet, you actually love me! and the VERY worst part... yea, you know it too... THERE ISN"T A DARN THING YOU… [more]
  • Family Confessions

    Sometime I wonder (actually I frequently wonder)
    I wonder if I really deserve my daughter, to have her in my life, learning to love me as a dad.  I oft think I really don't deserve someone so wonderful.  Then I realize she is both penance and reward for things I've done and do.I've done plenty of bad things, things there would be absolutely no question they were somewhere between bad and evil.  I suppose I've done a few good things to.At times she absolutely INFURIATES me, and other times...well, she is just the perfect angle!  It doesn't seem to matter which, I am compelled to love her with all my heart!  At her worst I find myself loving her even more, at her finest, I've all the resistance of a wet tissue and can deny her nothing.This p… [more]
  • Family Confessions

    could there be something better?
    Could there be anything better than having my child wanting to live with me?  If there is, I can't imagine what it could be.  Even if its only for a few days a week...  She tries so hard.  :)  We're making this dad/daughter relationship work...and it IS indeed work on both of our parts.  It seems its something we both really really want.  Its amazing, when she is here, it magically transforms into a "home".  … [more]
  • Family Confessions

    Hope is an amazing thing
    Tomorrow it's supposed to be a pretty warm day (for this part of the country). My daughter suggested we take a walk.  I like walking as does she.We have some issues we need to discuss and I've always felt that if we don't confront them, they will continue to fester just under the surface.She doesn't have a particularly good track record when it comes to confronting things or when it comes to meeting up with me, yet I remain ever hopeful and optimistic.I know it's going to be my job to do most of the talking (its an adult and dad thing) or at least I'll need to be prepared to start and carry the conversation when needed.  I know I will have to listen extra hard (she always says I don't listen… [more]
  • Family Confessions

    I've decided to do it!
    I suppose I've thought about doing it for a while.  I finally decided yesterday.  Tomorrow I'm going to find out what I need to do and sign-up to be a foster parent.  I have been cautioned, not to grow too attached, because they will only be on "loan".  That part will be kinda tough, but I suppose I'll manage.I'm not replacing my daughter, I couldn't or wouldn't do that.  She'll still and always be "nurero uno"  but even she has said in the past that maybe we ought to take in a foster child.  I hope it works out.  Here's to hoping!  :)… [more]