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activforlife 46-50, F
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Not Sure “laziness” Per Se Exist, I Believ It’s A Symptom Of Larger Deficits We Have
I remember being told as kids, “you lazy kids!” and I suppose back then we were lazy, but then again I see my own kids and when they appear lazy, I realize they are just so caught up in life, play...
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I Miss My Boyfriend Who Passed Away
"unmarried Widow"I lost my best friend/boyfriend/companion and my world just 3 months ago, he died unexpectedly. He took such good care of himself yet his heart gave out, he was only 64. I am 49. We met while I was in… [more] -
Fibro; Cp; Central Pain Disorder; Neurapathy; Names They Call Our PainI have a multitude of diagnosis, I was injured when a truck rear ended my car in 2006, I never healed right. I have been to hell and back. It turned out I finally got a good neurologist in Vail, Color… [more]
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I Have Daily Chronic Pain; It’s Real! All From A Whiplash InjuryHello, I am a women in my 40’s who just earned my B.A., at age 42 after raising children. I was so excited about the future, was working, power walking and even had an annual vacation to the … [more]
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A Whiplash Injury Stole My Life: 6 Yrs Now!I am a 40 + single mother, I had just earned my Bachelor’s degree in 2005 when my car was hit from behind by a truck; my brain, spinal cord and body were so rattled that I now live with intense high… [more]
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I wonder if I will ever be able to accept my dear companion passed away this year. I feel so numb, still. I fear if I heal, I will Lose him entirelyIts a process like peeling an onion and both make you cry. But this process more than causes me to cry--it also breaks my heart and It feels like my heart is a sponge and it’s being wrung out and it’s so painful! the sense of loss and profound helplessness is hard to imagine even while I am living it. AM I really LIVING IT? I suppose I am LIVING this pain and it’s killing me in parts. My Hospice counselor says “it’s illogical to use, when all we know is life from the moment we are born and we never get used to it” . I went to the thrift store today i honor of US, he and I would do that together..for the first time in over 4 months, I felt a gentle breeze normalcy on my face I kept choosing i… [more]
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