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Female , 41-45

I am real, have a lot of empathy and get very involved when I see someone treated unjustly. I am passionate and kind, and I would like to be appreciated for being myself!

Last Seen Mar 28, 2011
Member Since Jan 20, 2009
Favorite Quote "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
Heritage
Vices chocolate, flirting, procrastination, lateness
Politics Moderate
Horoscope Capricorn
Special day
Books Right now, Sherrilyn Kenyon - Dark Hunter Series
Music almost everything - but 80's music is my weakness
Movies The Best Years of Our Lives, Mrs. Miniver
Local Time June 30th, 5:49 PM

I Have a Confession

Anybody know why, out of the blue, the status and mood on your profile reset to nothing?? I thought it was the Month ending but my mood and status disappeared tonight for no reason... [more]
AnalyticalAly has shared 4 Mature Experiences
  • I Like to Collect Quotes

    A Good Friend Vs. a Best Friend Great quote - "When you're in jail, a good friend will be trying to bail you out. A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, 'Damn, that was fun'." — Grou… [more]
  • I Hate Being Tickled

    It's Not Me... My husband hates to be tickled - so much so that sometimes he snaps at the person that is doing it, including his little children.  I grew up where tickling was just a fun way for us to "… [more]
  • I Can Be Very Indecisive

    My Indecisiveness Can Incapacitate Me Sometimes I get so frustrated with myself because I can become very indecisive - about everything if I am stressed.  The end result is either inaction on my part, procrastination or overdoing.… [more]
  • I Feel Like I'm Not Good Enough

    Am I Ever Going to Be the Kind of Mother I Think My Girls Deserve? Growing up, all I wanted to be was a wife and a mom.  Never would I have thought that I would end up feeling like a failure at both. I thought that I would be this high energy fun mom … [more]
  • I am an option - not a priority

    Posted on: March 2nd, 2009 at 8:22PM

    I read this quote in one of the experiences: "Never let someone be your priority, while you remain their option." I can't find out who originally quoted it, but it really struck a chord for me. (Thanks HandsomeDevil for quoting it!) In my life, I have made a lot of people my priority - sometimes to my deficit. Their needs came first - their wants came first - and sometimes if their needs and wants were too much, I would just stop doing some things for myself. And when I was romantically involved - there was no doubt in anyone's mind that the guy was a priority to me - above pretty much all else (not really a good thing). I do think that some of this comes from me wanting everyone to lik… [more]

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  • Don't know what to call this entry....

    Posted on: May 27th, 2009 at 12:14AM

    I haven't completed and posted a blog entry and awhile. I think it is because I have too much going on in my head - thoughts racing around. I am not a big fan of waiting and seeing. I wasn't so bad that I would sneak and try and see what I was getting for Christmas, but when it comes to my life and the direction it is taking next... I really want to know - and I want to know now (LOL). The current state of my relationship with my husband is a wait and see situation. There is no other way around it. He and I have struggled from day 1 of our 15 year marriage. I see things that I have done that have not helped our relationship, and I can see things that he has done. I think that our bigge… [more]

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  • Don't know what I am thinking...

    Posted on: February 22nd, 2009 at 6:47PM

    So, I noticed over the weekend, that things get a little inactive (is that a nice way to put it?) and weekends seem to be my loneliest times. For awhile there, I felt like I was getting a clear picture as to how I felt abou things in my marriage, but recently, my husband seems to be trying harder to at least be kind and considerate. He has been this way in the past and reverted pretty quickly, but we will see this time. The only problem now is I am confused and back to where I started when I started to question everything about my life.... I still don't have any answers and I still feel like my life is mostly off track. I would like to find something that fulfills me but doesn't take awa… [more]

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  • Afraid to start

    Posted on: February 18th, 2009 at 11:43PM

    I think this will be good for me, but I don't know. I have a lot on my mind right now - (refer to the EP group - I Was Told I Think Too Much) - anyway, I don't have a good marriage and it is ALMOST a sexless marriage, but I have been told I should not post in the Sexless Marriage Experience Group because I am THE DENIER - good grief - I guess no matter the circumstances of your marriage and your life - you are the BAD partner if you deny your spouse sex. Well, I don't agree with that! There isn't any one huge thing but it isn't just small things that have accumulated over time.... I don't even know where to start. We have been married 15 years this April. We really never had that lege… [more]

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