Feeling thoughtful
✌Let the good times roll. Do what thou wilt.✌

Laissez les bons temps rouler. I am riddled with confusion about who I am, what the world is, and what my place in all of this might be. I'm fiercely dedicated to those that I love, while at the same time I acknowledge the possibility that I may not even know what love is. I wonder constantly if I am good enough. I strive to make myself believe that I am. I tiptoe around the dark pit of depression and the cutting blade of anxiety. I escape into other worlds through literature. I want to be happy. I hide my tears. I miss people that probably haven't thought of me in years. I remember. I have been told I think too much. In the grand scheme of things, I am inconsequential. The truth is that there is no person at all in the world; there is only presence. You are not — not as an ego, separate from the whole. You are part of the whole. The whole penetrates you, the whole breathes in you, pulsates in you, the whole is your life.

Last Seen Feb 6
Member Since Mar 02, 2010
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  • 100% American
  • and a little Spanish
Vices books, sleep, and pot
Politics Anarchist
Horoscope Pisces
Special day
Books too many!
Music Pepper, 311, The Supervillains, Incubus, AFI, Marilyn Manson
Local Time March 4th, 6:48 PM

I Am An Atheist

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  • What makes me happy?

    Posted on: August 18th, 2010 at 1:02AM

    Reading makes me happy- even if it is compulsive and I only use it to escape reality. Sleeping has the same affect, especially since I dream so much. Everything is wonderful in my dreams. The smell of Dial soap. You know the regular orange bar kind. It reminds me of my father. Playing with my hair. It may be a nervous habit but it relaxes me. Seeing the stars shining bright in the country sky. Being a city girl, seeing bright stars is almost surreal. Laughing until my stomach aches and tears stream down my face. One moment when I could care less what anyone thinks of me. Finding the perfect pair of jeans. I'm short. I don't like skinny jeans. It's hard. Holding the hand of someone I l… [more]


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    Posted on: June 14th, 2010 at 11:32PM

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