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Local Time December 21st, 7:26 AM

I Took The Are You An Expert Flirt Test

Deus Ex Machina You Are a Flirting Machine. You're always getting your flirt on, and you're pretty darn good at it too. When it comes to flirting, you're not exactly picky. And this is where the... [more]
GoodMan67 has shared 12 Mature Experiences
  • I Hate Being a Nice Guy Sometimes

    Nice Guy Might As Well Be A Curse Word My mom wanted to raise nice guys. Her goal was to raise southern gentlemen who were courteous and respectful to women. The good news is she was successful. The bad news in my case was she was successf… [more]
  • I Am a Recovering Co-dependent

    Explaining To My Ex I had to come to grips with my co-dependency last night.  Since my separation and almost completed divorce my ex has wondered why I needed to move on.  Truth is over the last 13+ years … [more]
  • I Love Inspirational Quotes

    What Is Driving My Life The quote that is driving a lot of my life right now is this:   “To love is to risk not being loved in return. To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure, … [more]
  • I 'm No Angel

    I'm Good But I'm No Angel. I've Sinned But I'm Not The Devil. I know I have made some serious mistakes in life and for some there is no comeback.  But I won't allow those mistakes to define or handcuff me into a place.  I am a man who can solve th… [more]
  • Venting Confessions

    I blew it
    I met a woman. We live in different places but were traveling a similar path. At first I was going to keep my distance. I wasn't looking for anyone but the more we talked the more I was drawn to her. Over time we became friends and with the right push could have been closer. But I started realizing the futility of the moment. She was almost 1000 miles away. I can not leave because my children are here. She could not leave because her life was there. And instead of realizing it and stepping away when it would have been less painful for her or me I did nothing. That left her doubting herself. Wondering why someone would again put her through a world of BS? Why she had to deal with … [more]
  • Love Confessions

    Stuff I've learned hanging out in a gay bar
    The names have been changed to protect a whole lotta people... A friend of mine Terri (Really cute blond I do comedy with) talked me into going with her to a bar to sing karaoke. OK it didn't take a lot of talking really. I got to the bar and after a about a half hour I realized "Hey, man. This is a gay bar." The guys feeling each other up in the corner was a dead giveaway. After the initial "OK gotta think about this" moment hit, I decided I was here to have fun and my friend felt comfortable enough with me to bring me out there. As liberal as the majority of the comedy scene is when you do it in a conservative area people kind of freak out. And since she is Bi this is a hush hush t… [more]
  • Friends Confessions

    Well look what the cat dragged in
    I am not sure what to say for myself. I spent months off of this board. I think I started pulling within myself especially over the last few months where it seems like more than a few things went wrong. It seemed like everything I put my hand to from December to July went out of control. And there are likely people here who don't want to talk to me now because I went from 0 to flake in no time flat. To those people I apologize. It wasn't you, just crap I was going through and likely am still going through but I will do my best to be present here again and participate more. I missed everyone I met here. Anyway, what have I missed?… [more]
  • Offtopic Confessions

    And then reality comes back in
    For the last few days I have entertained the idea that I might be able to put back together a relationship that had fallen apart between me and the woman I had fallen in love with when I separated. That came to a crashing halt today. I spent sometime depressed and upset about being a fool and why the Hell would I have tried to do this. I am incredible about tearing myself down No one can do it better than me and I was about to deliver the knock out blows when reality decided to step in A mutual friend of mine and the woman I lost today died in her sleep on Monday. No one knew this until today at noon. This put a whole world of things into perspective in a hurry for me. For a second,… [more]
  • Marriage advice from the divorced guy

    Posted on: February 22nd, 2010 at 12:40AM

    The last thing I ever feel that I can do for anyone is be a marriage counselor but I've had a lot of time to think about who I am and where I am in life and for some reason I feel I can share my insights with you. You can take what you here and use it or not. I'm not about to act like my insights on relationship are law and quite frankly I'd hold the advice of a guy in the middle of a divorce as suspect too. That being said, here we go. Anyway, as many of you know my marriage is ending. Won't go into the details again but suffice it to say I hit a point where I couldn't go on. So I went up to see my girls since they are on the other side of the State from me. On the way up I had a lot of t… [more]

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  • Another tip from the divorced guy: Just because it's Wednesday

    Posted on: March 2nd, 2010 at 11:51PM

    Guys, if you're in a relationship take a moment every chance you can to show the person they are special. If you wait until her birthday, Christmas and Valentine's Day you are 360 something days late. Wanna make her feel special? Do something to make her smile just because it's Wednesday. My mood: pretty good… [more]

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  • Getting beyond fighting for the sake of fighting

    Posted on: February 22nd, 2010 at 5:37PM

    My ex took it upon herself to attempt to cause a fight just for the sake of fighting today. Some background: A couple of months ago my ex had focused on a person that I had started having a relationship with as the reason we got divorced. I was ready to go in January. I seperated in June and I seriously took up with this woman in August so the timing doesn't fit but why allow facts to get in the way of a good story. So she took it upon herself to get out and set up a couple of her friends to contact my new girlfriend and in essence harass her on Facebook. This literally scared her off. If my ex was capable of chasing her down and reaching her there, she didn't want to be around me on… [more]

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