Female , 46-50
BC Canada

I am single and in process of happily divorcing. I tend to be or at least appear reserved and on the quiet side when you first meet me…but when you get to know me, I am amiable, outgoing, compassionate and a bit of a smart ass…in a good witty way.

Last Seen Dec 9
Member Since Mar 04, 2012
Favorite Quote “Don\'t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don\'t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” ― Albert Camus
  • 100% Canadian
Vices chocolate of course...what else is there?
Horoscope Cancer
Special day
Books Grapes of Wrath, Horror/Suspense fiction
Music 1970\'s
Movies Martian Child,
Local Time December 25th, 2:48 PM

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