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I Would Easily Spend a Whole Day Curled Up With a Good Book

A Good Book Is A Good Day I guess people have different definitions of what makes a good day.  Some people prefer a busy, productive day - getting chores done, visiting friends - on the go all day.  These people... [more]
jellibeanz has shared 3 Mature Experiences
  • I Am In a Long Distance Relationship

    Efforts And Disappointments: Coming Home So my boyfriend comes home today for his 5 day break. I am, of course, looking forward to his being here. I never quite feel like a whole me when he is gone. BUT I know today will be di… [more]
  • I Didn't Wait Until Marriage

    Test Drive I didn't wait until I was married to have sex.  I did wait until I was sure I was in love, and until I was with somebody who wanted the same things from having sex - on the same page as me relat… [more]
  • I Am An Auntie

    Nephews I consider myself an Aunty although half of my so called nephews are really my boyfriends nephews and technically are not mine yet. Altogether I have four nephews and three unknowns on the way!… [more]
  • I Hate to See You Sad

    Your Tears Are My Tears. I can't stand to see the people I love hurt and upset. The sight of a dear friend in tears often moves me to tears of my own. I want happiness for everyone I care about - I want past hurts come to t… [more]
  • Venting grrrr

    Posted on: May 5th, 2010 at 7:11PM

    Im freakin fired up. Is it too much to ask to spend time with my boyfriend?  We freakin live together and we hardly hang out.  Unless you call doing the dishes together hanging out.  Except, let me think about that - I DID THE FREAKIN DISHES ON MY OWN. I know he has a thesis to write.  How the **** could I forget?  Its only been THREE WHOLE YEARS.  And I know that it would help alot if he did do some paid work for time to time - considering I pay ALL the bills right now coz the government doesn't give students anything close to enough to sustain life. SO I understand that there are alot of general life factors that keep us from spending time together - and I think Im pretty good about it… [more]


  • Everything feels a bit crazy

    Posted on: July 18th, 2010 at 4:15AM

    So things have been extremely intense around here lately. A few days after I wrote last the whole world exploded. My boyfriend, he of the unfinished Masters Thesis was offered a job. BOOM Jaybee's world explodes! As far as we are aware the job is a three month contract, fly in, fly out, 3 weeks on, 1 off, based in a little hick town in the South Island. Perfect job for him – field based exploration geology, but then there is the whole 'move to a small town where there are little employment opportunities for me but be with him while he fulfills his dreams' or 'live apart and .......????' What exactly? It's becoming more and more obvious that I need another job but do I look for another job he… [more]


  • The Latest

    Posted on: October 4th, 2010 at 5:04AM

    Sooooo whats new with me? Well -- I HAVE A JOB INTERVIEW! Its an internal position, manager at a store down country. The Boy is still furiously trying to get his thesis done - the job that he was offered that first opened our eyes to moving is on hold. They aren't keeping it open for him but they want him to call and they will try and place him once he finishes his Masters. If they don't have anything its cool because the South Island is a faaar better place for him work wise anyway. I was keen to get a job down there as soon as possible to get settled before incase he did start a job that takes him away 3weeks of the month. And then this opportunity came up, I sent off my CV and BANG … [more]


  • Coughing and Cops.

    Posted on: July 21st, 2011 at 3:24AM

    Hi Team,I have the worst cough on record.  Feel rubbish.  Its this nasty dry hacking cough that just about cuts me in half - my stomach hurts so bad.  Its pretty awful and not much seems to be working to make it better.  Im drained and tired because I wake up every few hours to cough my lungs up.  I sound like I have the plague - I actually had a customer back away from me yesterday.  Not good.  BUT Im watching Police 10/7 and feck its hilarious.  Just wish I could laugh without coughing.They pull over this guy who has had a car accident, driving drunk and it happens he has peed his pants and the Cop goes - "It seems this man has peed himself, now he is an older man and we would generally as… [more]