Female , 31-35
Feeling hopeful
Searching for her...

There is usually so much to a person that trying to glimpse what is there by reading one of these little boxes is a bit on the futile side. I've changed this thing more times than I can count, but it usually winds up saying the same thing, only in different words. Anyway, I will do my best to tell you the important stuff that most people would want to know right away.

I am driven. I have ambition, and I know what I want in life. I like a girl who is the same. She needs to be intelligent, confident, but not arrogant, liberal, open- minded, and in search of something real; ie a healthy, loving partnership, where we are there for one another through thick and thin. I am not opposed to marriage(actually, I'd love to marry one day), but I am also VERY open to the idea of a healthy open relationship. I have, however, found that the whole house in the 'burbs imitation hetero style thing simply does not work for me. Yes, I want a long term, primary partner. But no, I do not want a Ward and June Cleaver: lesbian style set up.

I am also quirky, animated, and outgoing. I have a high level of energy that is getting higher all the time since I quit smoking and took up running, so I hope you can keep up! Anything from running the neighborhood to taking on a hiking trail to hitting an amusement park to slowing it down over a healthy meal we make together to anything in between is fair game! Life is too short to drive in the slow lane.

A little additional info: I just relocated to Saugerties, NY, and joined the Hudson Valley LGBTQ Center. Come see me, I don't know very many people!

Also,I graduated from college with an IT degree last December. Right now, I am wide open, starting the next chapter of my life, and looking for someone to share that adventure with.
I thought I had found my match through this very site, but it turned out I hadn't. Anyway, message me, I just might be the one. If I am not(though I think I might be), you're sure to find her here (or someplace), have a FABULOUS life.

Last Seen Nov 14, 2014
Member Since Jun 09, 2012
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  • 100% African American
Vices cigs(quitting), books, the internet
Politics Very Liberal
Horoscope Pisces
Special day
Books Harry Potter, thrillers, Bill Maher, Richard Dawkins, Christopher Hitchens, Stephen Hawking, Sam Harris
Movies Pretty Woman, The Good Son, Dolores Claiborne
Local Time July 8th, 3:23 AM

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