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I Used To Be In A Sexless Marriage

The End Posted 01/20/2012
This morning, my divorce was granted. Strangely, I feel no jubilation, no real happiness. No regrets, just sorry that it had to bethis way.Twenty-three years.I want to... [more]
  • I Live In a Sexless Marriage

    My Experience Posted 4/7/2011
    Most of the people posting here start out by saying that the sex with their spouse was wonderful at first, then fell off to the point where it is today. In our case, it was never very good and went do… [more]
  • I Live In a Sexless Marriage

    Listen Up Guys. Posted 6/8/2011
    I have been the target of an online scam. A woman contacted me through my inbox here at EP named prettyerma101. She was divorced, her husband had cheated on her, she wanted an older man who would be f… [more]
  • I Live In a Sexless Marriage

    The Latest Posted 7/4/2011
    A few days ago, my wife and I had a version of  "The Talk". Now, we have had any number of confrontations, talks, arguments, discussions about our sexless relationship. (Five years, if I count correc… [more]
  • I Live In a Sexless Marriage

    The End Posted 1/20/2012
    This morning, my divorce was granted. Strangely, I feel no jubilation, no real happiness. No regrets, just sorry that it had to bethis way.Twenty-three years.I want to ex… [more]
  • Beginning of the end

    Posted on: October 13th, 2011 at 8:54PM

    The divorce is proceeding.. we have made all our financial disclosures and sent them  off to our attorneys. It is a strange feeling.. disengaging.. we are both in the house, but barely speak. I am creating a new life for myself, but she will still be part of my life as long as we are parents. I am now anxious for it to be over; the anger is past, the feeling of betrayal is past. There are regrets, but I do not feel guilt, I tried for twenty-two years, but she did not. I gave, she took. That is really the bottom line. Even now she has no responsibility, no share in the problems at all..She lied again to me.. a small matter, intended to hurt me, make me feel that I am a bad father.. She says s… [more]

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  • After the storm....

    Posted on: March 12th, 2012 at 1:41PM

    How have I felt and how am I coping.. The first few days were kind of numb and blah.. I had been having a kind of manic lead up to the actual decree. But felt kind of down afterward.. She was still in the house for another ten days until her new house closed and she moved out.. That was the day the sun started to come out.. I have a special friend here on EP, with whom I would have wanted to be, but that was not possible, since she lives so far away. As time has gone on, I feel free er and happier. I used to drive down the street and see places where my XW had had meltdowns for one reason or another and it would depress me.. now, I see them and think "thank God, never again". I got the house… [more]

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