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I Was Disowned By My Family

Have I Been The Recipient Of My Mom's Displaced Anger At Her Best Friend? My dad cheated on my mom when I was in my early 20's. It was something that was kind of swept under the rug. I remember being at grandma's (mom's mom) who I was close to (dead now) and mom was crying... [more]
ultimatereality has shared 2 Mature Experiences
  • I Am Estranged From My Parents

    My Difficult And Complicated Family Relationships Are Partly What Brought Me Here I was wanting to connect to others in a way that seemed safe, and also where I could find kindred souls, because being estranged from family can put a hole in your heart. At this point I guess i am on… [more]
  • I Don't Live Vicariously Through My Children

    I Didn't Want My Mother To Live Vicariously Through Me I realize that people live vicariously through stories and movies and such, but when a person lives vicariously through their children, and want to dictate what that looks like, it can be extremely un… [more]
  • I Gave One of My Children Up For Adoption

    Out There Somewhere I gave my son up many years ago and since then have had two more....and a lot of life and living in between. This giving up for adoption followed a bad first marriage, where when I needed help badly a… [more]
  • I Want to Plant An Herb Garden

    Parsley, Chives, Rosemary And Thyme These are the herbs I have that so far survived the winter,but are all in fairly small pots. I have been reading about how great parsley is for you, and intend to grow a lot more this year. I hope to … [more]
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    timer at Starbucks makes me crazy
    I understand that at Starbucks the employees are doing a bunch of stuff at once, but.....I have had to high tail it out of there at times because of the fact that the alarm goes on and on and on without being turned off, and it is the same high pitch as my alarm clock. It is an annoying high pitch which wakes me up and forces me to do something. But I think that the employees learn to tune it out. I used to have to use their internet, so once when I really really wanted to leave because the alarm wasn't being turned off, I just had too much to do and couldn't afford to go somewhere else since I already spent my money for the coffee and was really broke. It stresses me out just thinking about… [more]