Ever since my husband and I were married his father has lived with us. We purchased a new house and I was hoping that he would move into a senior citizens apartment building that is more convenient to the rest of the family and downtown. But he didn't do that even though he doesn't like where we've moved (my husband and I love it). I hate fact that he lives with us!! He is messy, nasty and inconsiderate! I would love to have some privacy! My husband has a sister who lives alone but she doesn't want him to move in with her but she wants to complain to all who will listen that I don't cook for him. I'm not his maid! And to top it off at the time she was complaining about me not cooking for him, I was going through treatment for breast cancer (surgery, chemo, radiation) so I wasn't working at the time. My father-in-law talks about mine and my husband's personal business (fights, spats, etc) to my sister in law who then blabs to anyone who will listen.
I just HATE the fact that I am stuck living with this man so much so that I have thought about leaving my husband who is making no effort to ease this situation. I JUST WISH HE WOULD LEAVE!!!!