I'm in love with my niece

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Hanai - 22-25 years old

Posted by Hanai
on August 21st, 2009 at 11:34 PM

I have been secretely in love with my niece for many years. I've never been honest with her about my feelings and I most likely won't reveal it. Confessing to her could be a mistake because even tho my feelings are undenible they have no place in my society. Its not acceptable. I suspect she knows how I feel and sometimes she's very physically flirty and it gets me confused along with giving me courage to confess but I value the relatonship that we have as uncle and niece and I'd rather have that then not having anything. I've tried moving on and finding a new love but I can't stop thinking about her. There could be a possibility that I can confess to her and I know it could sever the relationship with her. Shes my half brothers daughter and I'm deeply in love.

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  1. nesscon23 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by nesscon23 on August 21st, 2009 at 11:38 PM

    ummmm...that is kinda creepy do not tell her trust me u will **** it up and stay away from her if she finds out she will probably feel so disgusted

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  3. macjc3 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by macjc3 on December 12th, 2009 at 8:42 AM

    It' too bad we let the rules of society shape and force our feelings into a fixed mold, that makes us all slaves! I believe in total freedom, to do and express anything as long as you respect the same of others. If someone does not like an expression they have the right to respectifully decline and the other should respectifully be understanding and accepting, without overreaction. Conformity is the gateway to oppression!
    Conformity is regressive!
    Freedom is progressive.
    Let your feelings guide you, as only you and your niece can decide what's best, no society.
    Love and peace as the world needs a lot more!
    Good luck

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  4. Anonymous

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  5. dsbizjak04 - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by dsbizjak04 Dec 23rd, 2013 at 1:49PM

    I have to agree with this, I found myself in the same situation being my ex girlfriends niece, I constantly continue to have feelings for both of them, why should we have limitations on love if your both adults why not, we only live once why not make the most of it.


  6. ihatefrank - 36-40 years old

    Posted by ihatefrank on May 17th, 2010 at 5:25 AM

    I wish people would be more understanding and not judge. What if the love was mutual but the opportunity was lost. That would be tragic. I wish our world was one that allowed any union as long as both agree and were over 18. There would be a lot less lonely people. Also anyone could confess their feelings without being condemned for it. Society makes ****** such a taboo. The heart wants what it wants, and that is a cruelty of life. Family members who are separated very early in life and meet as adults will be sexually attracted to each other. This is called Genetic Sexual Attraction, or GSA. These feelings cannot be helped but Society condemns it anyway.

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  7. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Apr 21st, 2015 at 2:53AM

  8. phoenixovid - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by phoenixovid on September 11th, 2010 at 2:59 PM

    I have the same situation. I love my niece and tell her and she tells me the same. She even told me that if it came between me and her boy that she don't love him, she loves Uncle Sonny. Before people freak though I must say we aren't related, we chose to be Unk and Niece. Makes things flow better. I protect her and she makes me want to stay alive. I know she loves me as much as I do her and I love her hugs and how she gives me that look when I'm punking her boy toy. Just left there in fact. Damn he's freakin' weak little punk. I'm always the Alpha dog in any room. Oh yeah, My niece and I have a love of body art. I got tats all over, all prison ones, did like 13 years, and she has a **** load too. I swear we are like the same people too cause guys walk into walls looking at her and every woman that ever met me fell in love and would do anything I told them to. I got 4 ex wives and too many to count ex girlfriends. Yeah, I had lots of fun. So, I'm 55 and the 40 year old divorcees I write say I'm the sexiest man they ever met and tell me I'm gorgeous and she has men crawling like roaches for her and she can pick and chose.

    So, point is; I love our relationship. Sex would ruin it. She knows I love her and will do anything for her and I know she loves me and would do anything for me but if sex was ever involved it would complicate things. Plus both of us got plenty of opposite sexes that pretty much beg. So, let her know that you love her but don't even give even the smallest desire for sex cause it will screw stuff up. If you need it that bad just go home and think about her as you whack off, or with the next woman you're with, works for me LOL Tell her that she means the world to you but as a special person in your life and you ain't looking to screw her, just want to let her know how much you appreciate her being in your world. I tell her all the time that I love her and she tells me but we know that the key to a great relationship is to be able to live separate lives together. Her hugs and the way she looks at me and the way we laugh together makes her the most important person in my life. By the way, I'm 55 and she's 28 and her first hubby is 50 now.

    Uncle Sonny

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  9. Anonymous

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  10. septober09 - 16-17 years old

    Posted by septober09 on May 4th, 2011 at 2:53 AM

    well .. my advice for you dude is to stop..

    Ive been on this way before as you are now ..
    i admitted to her my feelings.. and it went good .our relationship
    went long.. but .. nothing last forever.. and besides its not acceptable..
    some people have known our secret and screwed it up all the way.. it went bad ..
    to our family relationship there was conflict and i was forced to go away for years ..

    and now i'm back and i confess to God that Ive still have this freak'n feelings for her
    but as a man and her uncle i sacrificed.
    i made it the way it should be..

    she's beautiful and the girl Ive ever wanted in my life..|
    but she's my cousin's daughter.. i should back off.. and give her the freedom.

    so i hope you've understand..
    i know what you feel ..jut do the right thing. . :)

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  12. domuaali - 36-40 years old

    Posted by domuaali on May 23rd, 2011 at 6:38 AM

    I feel so so sorry for you. I have the same problem and because that i have lost 30 kgm,i weigh now only 50 kgm.please donot tell her and just keep it deep in you.

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  14. PandorasSpell - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by PandorasSpell on June 30th, 2013 at 9:36 PM

    My half-uncle is WONDERFUL....we went out to lunch today...and I don't care what people think anymore!

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  16. PandorasSpell - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by PandorasSpell on July 1st, 2013 at 5:04 AM

    My half-uncle is WONDERFUL....we went out to lunch today...and I don't care what people think anymore!

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  18. CouldHaveBeenMaybe - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by CouldHaveBeenMaybe on August 19th, 2013 at 10:14 PM

    Don't do it. You hurt more in the end than you will ever realize because it will be way harder to keep it going than you realize. It's just not worth it. Don't let any man put a spell on you because these half relatives are no different than any other horny male!

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  20. fibi90 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by fibi90 on November 20th, 2013 at 3:23 PM

    i have similar problem with my uncle for 6 years . my life become like hell. it's so clear for both of us but we never talk about it. i did't saw him until 19. after 2 weeks we were crazy about each other because we are so similar he had ticket to comeback to his country after 2 moth but he throw his ticket in front my eyes. i saw him that listened to my favorite musics, staring at me but both of us knew it's never gonna happen. he started to drunk, lost his job. after a year he tried to start again he started to ignore me he did't come to parties that i was there when i was around him, he tried to not look at me , he find new job find new girl friend and married with her but after 2 years he tired to fighting with his feeling . now i see him that drunk all the time fight with his wife every day and when i talk about my boyfriend or somebody that seem handsome he acting crazy and i see horrible anger in his eyes . it was so hurtful to me too. i always say to myself it's so unfair that we are like soulmate but we always should be separated .that's why i want to go another country and never see him because i think it's the only way. but it would be so easier if we just talked about it even if we did't want any relationship.i think in this situation people should be honest with each other and find logical solution together

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  21. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Apr 21st, 2015 at 2:53AM

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