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Am a cheating wife

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Posted by Anonymous
on August 22nd, 2009 at 12:25 PM


I have been married with a man for over 22 years. In 2001 I had an affair with another married man, I fell hard for him. I loved him and the lovemaking was incredible. After a few months he went back to his wife and we stopped. In 2006, we hooked up again and this time he told me he loved me and even gave me a ring in Christmas time. He was seperated from his wife and our affair was incredible. I could not leave my husband, but I talked to this man alot and met him once a week for love sessions that were crazy. I did not know he was still trying to get back to his wife. Anyway, he went back to his wife, she found out and told EVERYONE! Including my husband, people at my work, everyone. Now my girls know too. My 21 year old daughter doesnt respect me anymore, but I have told her that her father was unattentive and the reason I was with this other man was becasuse I fell in love with him and I thought he loved me too. He is of course back with his wife, and treating her like a queen while my husband and daughters see me like a *****. I loved this man, he told me he loved me too. I am trying hard to make my marriage work, but I am so angry. I miss this other mans lovemaking and when my husband touches me I feel like crying because I can only think of this other man. Why did he lie to me?

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  1. wildbob66 - 18-21 years old

    Posted by wildbob66 on August 22nd, 2009 at 12:53 PM

    if you like want you are doing i think it`s okay for you to have tohave sex with who
    you want too!!!

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  3. AlterEgo1958 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by AlterEgo1958 on August 22nd, 2009 at 1:59 PM

    I'm sorry to hear about the pain and torment that you are in. This is one of the dangers of an affair, that others find out about it. To explain why he did what he did ... Who knows.
    I know this doesn't help you, but, if you ever have the chance, asking him directly is the only way to find out why he did what he did.

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  4. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  5. Stevem7 - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by Stevem7 on August 22nd, 2009 at 3:07 PM

    First and foremost you and the hubby need to have a serious talk to see if you can put this behind you or not. If he isn't willing to forgive then you're in for a long time of unhappiness. I had an uncle who had an affair and was caught and my aunt could never forgive him and the two of them were miserable together the last 25 years of his life.

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  6. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  7. domebeaz - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by domebeaz on September 2nd, 2009 at 6:44 PM

    did you really think he was in love with you?
    He was in love with having new exciting sex!!

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  8. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  9. Posted by An EP User on December 30th, 2009 at 6:13 PM

    If you steal.. your a thief... If you act like a ****... what does that make you...perhaps if you had invested the energy you put into f#cking someone who was not your husband in your marriage you might not feel the way you do..

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  10. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  11. scabooba - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by scabooba on February 8th, 2010 at 3:01 PM

    We even bother with your husband. "I miss this other mans lovemaking and when my husband touches me I feel like crying because I can only think of this other man. " You should leave him and at least give him the courtesy of finding someone else. But I'm sure you'll stick around to torture him. Sorry i don't have much sympathy for you, you screwed up. Now either suck it up and get serious about your marriage (and that means forgetting about the other guy that was obviously only there for the sex) or have the decency to leave him. You got sucked into an affair. Of course the sex was hotter, and you miss "his" lovemaking. Your husband will never be forbidden fruit, but you need to figure out why this other guy left you twice for his wife and you need to figure out why your husband hasn't already packed his bags.

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  12. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  13. scabooba - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by scabooba on February 8th, 2010 at 3:19 PM

    We even bother with your husband. "I miss this other mans lovemaking and when my husband touches me I feel like crying because I can only think of this other man. " You should leave him and at least give him the courtesy of finding someone else. But I'm sure you'll stick around to torture him. Sorry i don't have much sympathy for you, you screwed up. Now either suck it up and get serious about your marriage (and that means forgetting about the other guy that was obviously only there for the sex) or have the decency to leave him. You got sucked into an affair. Of course the sex was hotter, and you miss "his" lovemaking. Your husband will never be forbidden fruit, but you need to figure out why this other guy left you twice for his wife and you need to figure out why your husband hasn't already packed his bags.

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  14. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  15. eamherstzeus - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by eamherstzeus on February 21st, 2010 at 10:52 AM

    Get out of the marriage and set your husband free! You've admitted that you don't love him! What else is there to do. Trying to make your marriage work. You failed at that when you had the affair. Don't blame anyone else, that's a cowards way out. You're the problem. Don't bring husband and daughter down with you.

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  16. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  17. Sensible1 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by Sensible1 on February 28th, 2010 at 4:37 PM

    I have to agree with almost everyone here. Having an affair is wrong. See the biggest problem is that when ur with someone already u don't take heed the signs of a jerk. I would never depend on a man leaving his wife. He obviously married her for a reason. Same with your husband. Do u know how hard it is to get over a cheating wife. He probably thinks of that other man touching u too. Whats the saying? "There is no honor among theives" Get over him and work on ur marriage. you dont spend the rest of ur life w/ ur kids only ur husband so get it together.

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  18. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

  19. carterslilbro - 41-45 years old

    Posted by carterslilbro on March 15th, 2010 at 9:01 PM

    You're a lying **** and you deserve what you get. Really? You can't understand why the other man lied to you? Really? No seriously...Really? **** you.

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  20. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 27th, 2014 at 7:55PM

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