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I AM EMBARRASSED OF MY BOYFRIEND...

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Posted by Anonymous
on August 30th, 2009 at 11:45 PM


I am embarrassed by my boyfriend and his kids. He is a really nice guy, and i do care about him a lot. However; I find my self not introducing him to people that know me in public. I feel  akCward, like... He and I dont match well as a couple.  He is everything I want in a man, but we don't match physically.  He is short and somewhat attractive, and I am tall and above average. I  really like him, but I feel embarrassed by the way we look together.  I have had strangers ask in a wired way " that's not your boyfriend, right"? Its easy to be with him, but I wonder if this will work for the long hall.  His kids are good kids, but his daughter, which I have tried to help is 17 and does not show any interest in her apperance. so I feel weird when people see us all together.   Any advice?

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  1. qsjm - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by qsjm on August 30th, 2009 at 11:58 PM

    If you really care about this guy you're going to have to get over this. Your true friends will understand that you're good together as for the people who judge... ef 'em. Do they really matter? My husband, who is truly a fantastic husband is overweight. I use to tease him and be somewhat embarrassed and then I realized that I was just being a *****; who he is is so much more important than how much he weighs.

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  2. qsjm - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by qsjm on August 31st, 2009 at 12:02 AM

    One more thought: other people may not be looking at you and your boyfriend and his daughter in the same critical way that you are.

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  3. cereza1 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by cereza1 on July 29th, 2010 at 2:16 PM

    I completely understand, I might a guy online and we talked for about a month before we met. He was nothing like what he said he was, even though he had sent a photo, it was a very good photo. He was short, two inches shorter then he said he was. I am tall for a girl, and was already worried that he was too short for me at the height he had stated. I side from being just short he was frail. I ended up being taller than him, and much stronger than him, and I LOVE wearing heels. He was not attractive to me at all. But he was a nice guy so... I tried to make it work, I felt very shallow. In the end, I was not just, not attracted to him physically, I was repulsed by him, so I called things off. I don't care what people say looks do matter...

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  4. andiswac - 22-25 years old

    Posted by andiswac on February 21st, 2011 at 2:28 AM

    well i am going out with a guy i realy realy like but i think his sense of fasion is a bit off.......a lot bad than i thought........i wish he could change........

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  5. andiswac - 22-25 years old

    Posted by andiswac on February 21st, 2011 at 2:28 AM

    well i am going out with a guy i realy realy like but i think his sense of fasion is a bit off.......a lot bad than i thought........i wish he could change........

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  6. andiswac - 22-25 years old

    Posted by andiswac on February 21st, 2011 at 2:28 AM

    well i am going out with a guy i realy realy like but i think his sense of fasion is a bit off.......a lot bad than i thought........i wish he could change........

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