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Sometimes I wish I didn't get married.

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Posted by Anonymous
on September 13th, 2009 at 12:12 PM


Sometimes I wish I didn't marry my wife. I don't want kids with her anymore. She's vindictive. Doesn't let me sleep before work. I have to do all the housework. And work too. I cook. Sometimes I remember what it was like to be single. I didn't like that. But it sure beats the arguing all the time. I don't tell her how I feel anymore. She doesn't care nor listen. I got into an accident a few weeks ago (I'm fine) so I called and told her, she told me that she couldn't talk because she was tired. I often experience episodes of depression which I have told her about and she didn't really care about that either. I get more love and feeling from our cat. What's the point of being married if this is what it's like?

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  1. Amanda2380 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Amanda2380 on September 13th, 2009 at 12:19 PM

    I feel for you and understand. Too many people are living like this everyday. It isn't healthy to be so unhappy with someone whom you had decided to be "The One". Then to feel trapped there... Maybe it is best if you do not have children with your wife. At some point you may decide to leave, that you deserve better, children will just make it harder to get out.

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  2. Amanda2380 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Amanda2380 on September 13th, 2009 at 12:21 PM

    But don't give up hope. It isn't always like that. Everyone is not like that. Maybe you should try to sit down with her and tell her how you're feeling.

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  3. Amanda2380 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Amanda2380 on September 13th, 2009 at 12:21 PM

    But don't give up hope. It isn't always like that. Everyone is not like that. Maybe you should try to sit down with her and tell her how you're feeling.

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  4. FinalFantasy - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by FinalFantasy on September 13th, 2009 at 12:22 PM

    I think you should try to talk to her and maybe try counseling. If Those don't pan out or she refuses or doesn't care you should seriously consider divorce. Living that way is unhealthy for you and will make you physically sick eventually

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  5. BrittanyNicole - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by BrittanyNicole on September 13th, 2009 at 1:17 PM

    I THINK YOU NEED TO GET OUT IMMEDIATELY...I know you have already tried to talk to her in every way you can...you need to consider finding a divorce lawyer...and next time be more careful about who you are giving your last name to...DO NOT BRING ANY KIDS INTO THIS! YOU WILL NEVER GET OUT OF THIS! I KNOW YOU DONT WANT TO DO THIS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, DO YA? Think about that everyday you continue to stay in this horrible marriage...if you keep pushing it back, you will be there forever....

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  6. undecided265 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by undecided265 on September 13th, 2009 at 2:25 PM

    From what you described, there is no way she can really care for you. Why are you afraid of being single? You are already doing everything anyway, why not clean and cook in your own home alone.

    So many people stay in bad relationships out of fear that they will end up alone and sad. But if you already feel like that you have nothing to loose!

    Get out of the marriage. It's only bringing you down when you can find happiness elsewhere

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  7. jaxxy313 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by jaxxy313 on September 13th, 2009 at 3:59 PM

    You commented that you had bouts of depression. Maybe your problems don't have anything to do with her. If you were unhappy being single and unhappy being married perhaps you have "depression" problems?? Try to think of things you like to do for yourself and start doing them..don't count on other people to "make you happy" or complete your life..it doesnt happen, its a myth.

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