I like this site because many people here are very open-minded. I proved that I am judging and close-minded. There is a person named Samantha. She is a transgendered male. Born as a guy, but wanted to be a girl. She began talking to me, at first it was fine... She's 61 and I'm 15, and well checking out her profile, and seeing picutres of naked woman, and she asked what school I go to... Now i feel bad, because I judged her, thinking she was bad for no reason. Am I horrible? Tell me what you think.
I blocked her, now I feel bad
Posted by cynlovesnick
on November 7th, 2009 at 10:08 AM
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Posted by UnidentifiedHobo on November 7th, 2009 at 10:59 AM
I don't think you're horrible at all. You've been very nice and friendly to me, and I think it was odd for this "Samantha" to ask for such specific details from a new friend of such a young age. I'd be suspicious too; in fact I AM. Even though it's great that you try not to judge people, you still have to exercise caution, and I hope that you continue to do so.
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Posted by flight087 on November 7th, 2009 at 12:50 PM
I have to agree with UnidentifiedHobo. it's good not to judge but you have to know when something is suspicious. it is sad but some people out there will take advantage of the open-mindedness on this and other sites. try not to beat yourself up about it and don't be afraid to be careful on these sites. people are not always what they seem.
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Posted by SoCanadian on November 7th, 2009 at 3:04 PM
No you aren't horrible. You are sensible. If your "spidey senses" are tingling . . . listen to them.
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Posted by cynlovesnick on November 7th, 2009 at 6:13 PM
Thanks guys, I felt bad about this but now I feel a lot better.
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Posted by MISTRESSROXY on November 8th, 2009 at 11:52 AM
No one on this site should ask questions relating to identity, especially when talking to someone younger than 18. Block away, I would block my own mother if she asked such questions.
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