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Posted by Anonymous
on November 7th, 2009 at 9:53 PM




 

I am so sad tonight.  My husband is a piece of **** and he will never realize what he has.  He goes to the neighbors houses and gets drunk and never wants to be with us on the weekend.  He says he doesnt care about how I feel and what ever I have to say will never matter. He doesn't ever let me talk and I want to run away with the kids but there is no where for us to go.  He is so controlling and emotionally abusive. I hope that someday soon I can get the strength to leave him.



 

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  1. missjudy - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by missjudy on November 7th, 2009 at 10:38 PM

    what to say there are so many wives an familys out there going threw the same ordeal. i feel so sad for you. i am a cheating wife but i do not abuse my husband. i make every effort to see that he is happy an satisfied. its just that i am well taken care of an bored. a person can only stand so many bridge partys, ladys clubs, country club cocktails etc. i wish i had a answer to give you. if you have no where to go an why should you leave your place. why not him? but like lots of ladys whos going to pay rent ,bills, an so on. it is truly a big hard problem. sorry honey if i was there we could hug an cry together. wishing you a way out with with all my love.

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  2. jackson11 - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by jackson11 on November 7th, 2009 at 11:26 PM

    I know someone in a similar situation as you. He's had admitted to me that he prefers the bar to his home because he feels comfortable and not pressured when he's out and that, yes HE'S CONSTANTLY FLIRTING with other women, mainly young ones and he wonders how his life would have turned out hadn't he married his wife. It's sad, she a very nice girl, they've been together since elementary school. I feel really bad for her as I've seen him behave like Mr. NICE GUY with others rather than his own wife and kid. I fell strange whenever she talks to me about it as he's confessed these things to me (my husband and him are really good friends) . She's really great and doesn't deserve this kind of treatment. This one time she took her kid to some amusement park and should have been back home early... (she's not an experienced driver) as we were waiting for her (kind of) and never did he flinch neither did he bother to call her cell to find out if she had an accident! She finally showed up, she got lost and so on and so on... Anyway I can't even continue...this stuff is too heavy. I wished he'd change for his family's sake and realise that he has a true gem.

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  3. goldenmoon1098 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by goldenmoon1098 on November 8th, 2009 at 9:05 PM

    Do not be sorry for yourself, be sorry for your kids that are counting on you for a better life. Go ahead and look for help, you do not deserve to be treated like garbage. You are a beautiful person created at the image of God, I believe that you can leave the trash behind. Got a new job, got new studies, cultivate yourself, let your light shine.

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