my mother is always very partial to my brother ,,she only treats me like a dog,where it gets all the pamper but still its a dog! now thats the way im being treated..let me tell you a small experience..my brother (hate to say that!) who hanged my phone by entering the wrong password in it five times,,without my knowledge...anyway it was my phone,and he asks me what to do?! hello if he had asked me before I would have released the password and given it to him for listening songs and now since he hanged it unnecassarily and without my permission,obviously I got angry..very angry,,and I just asked him to get out of the room..well in fact I screamed and told that he was grounded from touching the phone and the computer...now on whos side is the mistake? on him right?! but see,,he sarcasticly and emotionally said it in a very problamatic manner to my mom that she took the belt and blasted and bruised me very badly..,in the hall...i keep asking her whats the reason she doesnt tell me...the more I screamed the more she beat me...so I ran into my room and locked myself up before I could get anymore..and hence Im writing this from my room now to you all..please help me..I have nobody to help me..my father is another psychotic creature who never understands anybody in the family and hates everyone...so I m all alone...she is torturing me...to the core..please...im crying and suffering in pain and blood clots while im writing this to you,..tell me what to do.im in such agony..she infact said that i was just a dog in the house,who has to listen to whatever she says...but do you think I should given such atreatment..and my brother had an air of satisfaction and content of what was happening infact he even showed a wicked smile...he is 11 yearz old and im 17..i did understand him,,and she knows whats goin on,,but why should I go through all this?for everything i have a restriction in my house...she even tells tht women are slaves to man after they get married...iM crying I m not even able to type anything,,by the tears in my eyes...I even tried shouting back at her,,and screamed at her that she was a ***** from my room...how much more do you think I can take?
help pleaaaaaassseeee my mother is very mean and is killing me
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Posted by crystalcore on November 7th, 2009 at 11:38 PM
my mom is the same she treats my sister better all b/c she went to rehab and im the good one i never get anything.
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Posted by drachirhk on November 7th, 2009 at 11:41 PM
OMG!!!
She beat you???!!!!
She is enabling your brother to feel entitled... there is so much wrong here.... Your to be a slave to a man after you marry??? WOW.... your battered....this is so wrong.... You need an advocate.
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Posted by drachirhk on November 7th, 2009 at 11:41 PM
OMG!!!
She beat you???!!!!
She is enabling your brother to feel entitled... there is so much wrong here.... Your to be a slave to a man after you marry??? WOW.... your battered....this is so wrong.... You need an advocate.
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Posted by ferina on November 7th, 2009 at 11:46 PM
yes,,,even now she was banging at the door madly..to see whether I was online..but I hid my laptop under the bed..and again locked myself up now..
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Posted by drachirhk on November 8th, 2009 at 12:06 AM
This is not a good situation.... people need to get a grip on their emotions. I'm sorry about you getting beaten... that sounds horrible. It also sounds really dramatic. If you've been beaten too badly where there are marks... I suppose you could go to the authorities...
If you don't want to do that... you may need to figure out a way to diffuse the situation... Unfortunately your going to have to deal with this until you are old enough to move out... or get help from social workers.... I feel for you :(
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Posted by midlifemadness on November 8th, 2009 at 2:09 AM
can you call the police and report this?
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Posted by kc47 on November 8th, 2009 at 11:36 AM
my suggestion to u is that u should nt talk back rite now... go to ur mom when she is calm and feeling good.. and try to talk to her, and ask whether she loves u or not.... she will surely answer to u, and i am very sure she will apologies to you, for hitting u... she might take some time but she will definately realise her mistake.. because i know that no parent hate their children... u will come to know when u grow up.... i know it is very difficult to do wat i asked u to do... but just try, im am 100% sure it will work.. coz i also used to think like u, when my parents used to hit me... and dont talk back or shout back when ur mom is angry, coz she is ur mother, try to respect her then she will love for that... please please try it.. ok take care..
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Posted by vikkyadithya01 on November 9th, 2009 at 11:16 AM
my dear ferina.. i wish i was there with you as your elder brother to be with you, to tell you that you will be ok dear sister. i feel for you.. i feel for what you are going through..
your mother is stupid, true... i am surprised that there are people who still think that way.. but then they are our parents arent they ?? what can we do about it ? i agree with kc47 totally.. plz do not yell or talk back at your parents.. I can understand your frustration... but shouting isnt going to make things any better.
like kc47 says talk to your mom once when she is calm, ask her if she loves you.. also tell her that you are sorry for yelling at her (i know, its tuff. i know you feel like its not worth it.. but we cant decide who is worth what... only time will tell us that) for now tell your mom that you are sorry for yelling at her, and tell her that because of her beating and because of the pain you got angry.. tell her you will try not to yell at her.. hopefully that will put some emotion into her heart..
let us forgive your mother my sister, let us hope is was just stupid and so was behaving that way... and also about your brother, dont worry too much about him.. he is 11 right now right ? elder one's in the house somehow happen to be the ones who wantedly or unwantedly take the battering. its wrong but it will change... you will see.. all my love and gods blessings to you dear sister !!
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