i was dating this guy for a year and a half, it was love at first sight, i fell inlove and trusted him so fast. i got pregnant 3 months after, i am on birth control pill never missed didn't know how it happen and we both know that we weren't ready to become a parent. so we both decided to get an abortion it was the most horrible thing i've ever done and i am still dealing with the depression. we are both sad that we have to go through it and he made a promise that whatever happens to our future that we have to stick together and correct the mistake that we made and so i believed him. but guess what happened? he changed! HE LEFT ME..... now what?
too much pain! how can i get over it?
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on November 23rd, 2009 at 7:07 PM
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Posted by engaine on November 23rd, 2009 at 7:16 PM
The only thing I can tell you, is that while the pain is really bad right now, it will pass. You will feel better some day.
You know yourself; you know what makes you feel happy. In my experience, the only way to deal with this kind of thing, is to keep doing those things that make you happy, and don't give up until you can find some relief.
Anonymous guy sounds really emotionally immature to me. If I had to extrapolate, I would say that he just couldn't deal with the situation. You're worried about yourself, but maybe it will help you feel better, if you step back and realize that you are the emotionally strong one here. It wasn't he who had the abortion after all.
Best of luck.
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Posted by ProdigalDaughter on November 23rd, 2009 at 7:22 PM
I don't believe you can ever stop hurting from what has happened. But I do believe you can find a way to pull through. Obviously, he wasn't the one for you. Even if he changed and left you, you are still the beautiful, strong, woman you were before you met him. It will be very hard for a while. I know you're dealing with this guilt and pain and suffering- maybe go to a doctor and see what medications may help you. It's difficult not to want to escape the situation but know that you're stronger than this. Someone will come along who is meant for you and then you can have a baby and a happy life just like you deserve. This is just one chapter in your book. Keep turning the pages until you find the happy ending you're looking for.
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