My wife wants a divorce after 12 years and I am still trying to hang on. But I am asking myself why. She doesnt reply to my emails, ignores my calls, and even worse, I am am deployed in Korea away from my family and kids and she tells me she wants a divorce before the holidays! Yea, way to support your husband there!
She makes me feel like such a failure in my 15yr military career that I am ready to quit it all. But will she still have me? Nope, I have been bested by the internet life she has. She wants to leave me for someone she has never met, take my two kids away from me forever, and expect me to pay for it all. I think not, I think. Even after all this torment, I still love her with all my heart. I have never strayed from her and never plan to. I work extremely hard so they can have a better life than I had growing up, and now she has to put our kids through a nightmare divorce.
I thought you were supposed to work things out in a marriage. We have before, we can do it again, but she lacks the will to even try. HEARTLESS! GOD, why do I love her so much. Honestly, a knife in my heart would feel so much better right now.