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I Intensely H.A.T.E. My Ex-Bestfriend Who I Live With

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Ameliorate - 26-30 years old - male

Posted by Ameliorate
on January 28th, 2010 at 3:05 AM


Oh man, he is the most ego-centric, arrogant, blind, self-righteous, degrading person I have met in my life thus far! I moved in with him because I was going through extreme stress in NYC. I had left Cincinnati to go there and to start a new life, which ended up incredibly challenging. He knew what was going on up there because I kept in touch with him. It has been excruciatingly difficult to make friends and keep people in my life because many do not understand me. This leads to much disrespect, undervalue, and under appreciation. I have developed so much anger, hate, rage, depression and more from this. He knows that life was really rough, so we decided I would move in with him. Now, I didn't know everything about him, nor did I know enough. After moving in with him, I realized the stress did not recede, it got worse, and has ever since; that was 6-7 months ago. He calls me his bestfriend but he acts as if he is better than me because of his material possessions and becuase he is so self-roghteous. He degrades my intelligence, my goals, my ideas, and opinions. He talks to me as if he is my father, or bigger brother, or boss, or superior to me when I am a fully evolved adult. I have no one in my life who really gets me to the point of my uniqe eccentricities and I foolishly and rashly assumed he would! So, now, I keep to myself; I don't share my professional or personal endeavors to him, I don't even really talk to him, I stay away from the house as much as possible; coming in very late- I HATE HIS GUTS TO THE HIGHEST DEGREE POSSIBLE! I think he gets it that he is a bother to be around but he doesn't know everything.....I will be moving out soon and I AM INDESCRIBABLY EXCITED! The worst part of this is that I do not treat him the way he treats me-  I know better and he is 4o something and I am 25, now tell me who 'really'needs to grow up. Friends do not treat each other this way, and I have not considered him a friend in a long time, when I leave he will know that he is unworthy of my friendship.

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  1. Daveokay - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Daveokay on June 24th, 2010 at 7:03 AM

    Then just move out. simple If you hate him so much.

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