I want to have sex with my step daughter

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tandom1216 - 61-65 years old - male

Posted by tandom1216
on March 11th, 2010 at 3:57 PM

I live in nearly a sexless marriage . We have been married for near 20 years and have had sex maybe 5 times in the last 3 years. My wife is just not interested any more. I find myself ************ daily. To make matters worse, my 25'ish step daughter lives with us. She is so hot. I find myself fantasizing about having sex with her while ************. She's never come on to me nor I to her but I would love to have her. I know you will all tell me I am sick but I can't help it. I love sex too much, I guess.

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  1. MissLily - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by MissLily on March 11th, 2010 at 5:17 PM

    Okay its good you confessed this. the next step is to deal with it. Its not so terrible I guess that you realized this but you really need to -now the you have put this into words- stop seeing this innocent young lady who is like a daughter to you, as a sex object. There are tons of hot ladies out there but a daughter, niece, sister etc is someone you should want to protect! not objectify! Please please please consider a divorce or maybe some therapy for your marriage. if you divorce your wife you can find a new mate who matches you better and have a healthy sex life which will almost surely cure you from this sudden unhealthy desire for whatever to have whatever is closest in proximity. OR therapy for your marriage could cure your problems but it really seems like it might be beyond that at this point. I sincerely hope you do one of those 2 things. You can change the way you think by reenforcing healthy thought processes!

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  2. tandom1216 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by tandom1216 on March 11th, 2010 at 6:23 PM

    I would never act on it but seeing this in writing is enough for me to realize how wrong it is. I need to abandon this fantasy. I love my wife too much to divorce her and I believe she loves me as well. We just don't view sex the same way. I guess I just need to seek out some new hobbies to take my mind off of it. Thanks for your comments. They are greatly appreciated.

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  3. MissLily - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by MissLily on March 15th, 2010 at 6:04 PM

    I'm so glad you felt like this has helped you (wrting this and reading it back) I still think this is going to take some compromising about your needs in the relationship. The things you said about abandoning the fantasy and getting involved in hobbies are just right but additionally it might be time for some relationship work or counselling. I believe that everyone can use that all the time and any stage of their marriage/ relationship so its not a bad thing that it needs some work. I think a good relationship involves continual growth and learning.

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  4. psychopati - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by psychopati on June 29th, 2010 at 10:30 PM

    find another woman, there is a lot of them looking for sex, but SHE IS YOU DAUGTHER.

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