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willjames2000 - 46-50 years old - male

Posted by willjames2000
on June 18th, 2010 at 6:40 AM

My wife and I moved into our house right after we were married 24 years ago. The neighbor family consisted of a single mom of three daughters. At the time we had no kids and I connected with the middle girl especially, who was 8 years old at the time. Her father was a bad actor who she never saw, and I tried to be a good father figure for her when possible. Through the years I gave her advice, was a shoulder to cry on when a boy dumped her, was right there when she was involved in a car accident at 17,  and when her boyfriend (who was to become her husband, despite my advice) was thrown in jail for assault I was the one she asked for help for bail. When I noticed she was becoming a women I had the natural male reaction and was attracted, but this was the little "girl next door" and by that time I was in my mid 30s, and she was just 17 so a typical male fantasy, one that would never come true, right? Well contact over the next few years after she ws married was spotty, but still there. Her marriage at 21 lasted just long enough to give her 3 beautiful kids of her own, (who I adore) and she divorced her abusive husband and moved back in with her mom, with three kids in tow. We now talked more but she was busy with her three kids, then she met a guy at work, they became engaged, and he moved in with her, still next door.   But there was still something there for me. Then one day she asked for help with her lawn mower and we began tallking. She opened right up to about problems she wsa having with her relationship with her fiance. I was surprised with her openess, but when she revealed that she had always has a crush on me, things progressed quickly from flirting, to sexting to sex. I am still married and she is still engaged, and it is very diificult to get together discreetly, but we are haveing regular sex and enjoying it immensely, We are both committed to our primary relationships, but plan to be each others secret lovers for the long term. I know its wrong, but it feels so right. 

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  1. wallies - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by wallies on June 18th, 2010 at 7:05 AM

    sjoe thats hectic..... but love runs out sometimes in a persons life and your just with that person for the sake of "feeling at home" and its nice if someone gives you that bit of attention else where!

    But you must be warned that some day you'll burn your fingers and youll have to think about how its gonna make your wife feel???

    It takes an aternity to urn trust and a few seconds to destroy it!

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  2. Posted by An EP User on June 18th, 2010 at 8:21 AM

    cool!!! when was the last rump?

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  3. devilmademedoit - 26-30 years old

    Posted by devilmademedoit on June 18th, 2010 at 8:51 AM

    wow your wife is such a lucky gal I am sure she dosent deserve such a honest and loving husband.yor a fucktard

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  4. dawnofthedead - 31-35 years old

    Posted by dawnofthedead on June 18th, 2010 at 9:35 AM

    Wow! Have you really thought about how selfish you are? I mean what's going to happen when your wife or your lover's fiance find out? And trust me they will find out!!! Both of these people wil be devasted and all you can say is "I know its wrong, but it feels so right." Man up, either quit having anything at all to do with this girl or get a divorce so you can be with her. But as long as you are messing around with this girl behind your wife's back, you are a coward. Oh, and have you ever thought about how awkward it would,(and will be), for everyone if they find out? I mean all you guys live right next to each other right? How is your wife going to feel about living next to the "little girl" that you mentored and now that she is all grown up, you are *******?I have to agree with the above comment.

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  5. yalibar12 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by yalibar12 on June 18th, 2010 at 10:26 AM

    you are really lucky but what would happen if your wife is doing the same will you get maaaad

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  6. willjames2000 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by willjames2000 on June 18th, 2010 at 2:48 PM

    Yep, shes 32, a great lover, and a great friend. We have thouroughly discussed the potential consequences and we are not having sex at our homes or in the back yard or anything. Her fiance is a great guy and she loves him dearly. Her kids call him dad. My wife is a wonderful lover and mother to our three mostly-grownup children. Niether one of us is interested in leaving our spouses and we know there is no future for us together. Just friends with benefits.

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  7. Posted by An EP User on June 18th, 2010 at 6:28 PM

    you gotta love those friends with benefits, they are hard to come by. lucky bastard! lol

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  8. lokedout - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by lokedout on February 22nd, 2011 at 7:16 PM

    keep it discreet and enjoy it while it lasts. but when its over, its got to be over.

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