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megsyface11 - 18-21 years old - female

Posted by megsyface11
on July 27th, 2010 at 2:31 PM


So many people are on here everyday, and more often than not, there are confessions from people who are so unahppy with life. The perpelxity that i have experienced is so great, i often think about it throughout the day. If someone is unhappy they should change what they are doing. I was an angsty teenager, but i never hurt my self or even considered being selfish enough to take my own life. When i was upset, i would go do something that made me truly happy. Its seems that some people here just wallow in their misery until someone picks them up of the floor. I think that a state of moroseness can only be cured by ones self. you cant be happy if you depend on other people to do it for you. someone else will always have a worse off situation, but a lot of the time they arent moping about it.

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  1. college101 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by college101 on July 27th, 2010 at 2:33 PM

    Well you have a right to your opinion however I feel it is wrong to call people who commit suicide selfish. They are not in the right state of mind when they do it, if you look it up you will see the majority are in some sort of a mental break down and incapable of thinking rationally.

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  2. veronica4ever - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by veronica4ever on July 27th, 2010 at 2:36 PM

    you're right only you can make youself happy. its not good to depend on others to do so. im gonna try that.

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  3. veronica4ever - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by veronica4ever on July 27th, 2010 at 2:37 PM

    good point college.

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  4. college101 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by college101 on July 27th, 2010 at 2:40 PM

    Thank you V

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  5. inexperienced - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by inexperienced on July 27th, 2010 at 2:50 PM

    Well suicide is pretty damn extreme, but for a lot of the run of the mill depression and problems people experience it's all mostly stuff that you have to deal with on your own. It's nice having a place to vent or get the thoughts out, but it shouldn't be about needing someone to fix you.

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  6. megsyface11 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by megsyface11 on July 27th, 2010 at 2:52 PM

    college, that is just giving people an excuse to kill/hurt themselves, i say it is selfish because there are so many people out there who truly do care and want to help. i have been in the situation where i had to help someone who was trying to hurt herself in front of me. it was selfish because it hurt me and everyone else that cared. we wanted to help but she wouldnt let us.

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  7. Lavender5 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by Lavender5 on July 27th, 2010 at 3:03 PM

    Very aptly remarked by college101 ... Well, v all depend on others for our happiness, at some point or d other in life, n to say dat v shudnt do so, is easier said than done ... Preaching is easy, every1 does it to perfection, but, practically its not as easy as it sounds ... Who doznt want to b happy ? Every1 does ... N if U can manage to b happy in every situation, w/o moping abt it, 24x7x365 . . Then . . Hats off to U !!  

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  8. Posted by An EP User on July 27th, 2010 at 8:48 PM

    Meg, you are right and so are they.. If they want to vent their feelings , I think it's a positive thing. Think about those who have no place to go and no one to give them ear.. I feel sorry

    Raising the issue like you did, brings up the awareness that one ought to be and come to terms with their behavior. That's what is so great about this site..

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  9. megsyface11 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by megsyface11 on July 28th, 2010 at 12:43 AM

    You are so intuitive belle!

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