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AwakingDreamWalker - 22-25 years old - male

Posted by AwakingDreamWalker
on October 14th, 2010 at 2:21 PM

I have a hard time trusting my girlfriend , Im constantly snooping , finding **** but its really not anything because most her friends are gay . I worry she is going to cheat or so much as flirt with a guy every time she goes out. she's older than me im 21 and shes 28 so it also puts a thought across my head that shes older she can play me because she's got experience. 

but really im just bugging myself i think .. stressing myself out. she said she loves me , she wants to have a kid with me "no girl has ever said that " she wanted me back after a break-up where i called her everything in the book . I said I wanted to kill her and that i hated her in a drunken blackout , end up getting arrested because she called the cops because she was scared. I need to stop this . I love her . all these misconceptions of what shes doing is really putting a beautiful thing from excelling forward . I feel when i can let go and trust will be when im truly happy 

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  1. emilynn - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by emilynn on October 14th, 2010 at 2:24 PM

    If you keep driving her away like you already are doing, she will cheat on you.

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  2. GuardianoftheHeart - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by GuardianoftheHeart on October 14th, 2010 at 2:26 PM

    ^ ditto

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  3. iciness - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by iciness on October 14th, 2010 at 2:31 PM

    Google "Othello Syndrome." You may need help.

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  4. Posted by An EP User on October 14th, 2010 at 2:40 PM

    some of that sounds normal, maybe this is happening because of something thats happened to you in the past, if you both love eachother age shouldnt matter, if your paranoid because she's older dont date her and if you want anything to get better, dont drink as much

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  5. AwakingDreamWalker - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by AwakingDreamWalker on October 14th, 2010 at 4:17 PM

    Well I found out about the othello syndrome and it sounds pretty scary , can lead to schyzaphrinia . I showed my girl what I have found and now we are looking for options and ways to deal with it . im just glad I know its not normal and it is recognized in the medical field . if anyone has any good exersizes i can do thatd be kewl .

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  6. RedWolfGuy - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by RedWolfGuy on April 29th, 2011 at 3:46 PM

    hm...the only thing i know that the guy cheated before in the past..and gets paranoid...and this is off topic..guys who have troubled relationship with there mothers, and have there trust broken grow up to have trust issues with women. but thats my opinion. its probaly doesnt relate to this at but oh well

    just relax there dude. ..thats how i was in one of my relationships..and it just drove her away from me. she she she jsut wanted a break...and you know what i did..i didn't listen. and it went downhill from there..:P

    but trust yourself first. to be able to deal with this better. love is unconditional..she'll love you no matter what...

    lol..i didn't realise this message was a year ago. well thats if you your still with her. if u are. congrats..i hope is all going well with you sir :)

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