On May 17th, Confessions (with usernames) will move to the I Have A Confession group. Anonymous confessions will not be preserved. This transition is necessary for site-wide security and maintenance.

glad that you left

All Confessions

« Next Previous » Category: love Confessions

espressluv - 31-35 years old - female

Posted by espressluv
on October 29th, 2010 at 10:43 PM

maybe it's just a matter of time...  isn't that where we're headed anyway?  storming out cause I tell you I expect better and that I won't be happy with your crumbs, that's fine.  you go.  I don't deserve to get second best all day long while you go around doing everything that makes you happy irregardless of me or the kids.  I do take ownership of where we are in the marriage - we are on the rocks because I let you put me second for too many years.  Yeah, it's hard now and it's not fun, but I'm standing up for myself even if you don't like it and we split for good.  Cause I'm not going to be gracious for whatever halfhearted attempts you make that are nothing but you doing whatever you want then throwing me a bone at the end of it.  Yes, you are a jerk and no, I'm not going to make you feel better because it hurts to hear that.  Unless you start owning the crap that you do, and STOP doing it, then you might as well stay gone anyway.

Vote up! 1

1 Comment (add your own)

Sort By  
  1. Posted by An EP User on October 29th, 2010 at 11:07 PM

    Good for you, standing up. You can't *always* be the one whose needs come second.

    Reply | 1dislike | Flag

  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User May 23rd, 2015 at 11:03PM

Experience Project is a community based on authenticity, support, and respect. EP encourages you to post with these values in mind.

Add your Comment


Post A New Confession