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Embarrassing to be outwrestled by a girl

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captive - 31-35 years old - male

Posted by captive
on December 29th, 2010 at 8:35 PM


Or, I should say, "outwrestled by a woman", although she looked like a girl.

One of my odd, aberrant behaviors is that I like to do mixed wrestling. For the uninitiated, this means when a male wrestles a woman. And, yes, it really is just wrestling, nothing illegal. At least for me. I am a slender male, physically fit but not very strong. I do it because I love the intensity of the experience, being matched against someone who is trying to control you. The role reversal of the woman trying to outwrestle the man also appeals to me.

I started on this with typical male arrogance, not believing that a woman - even a big, strong, woman - could beat me, a male. I soon found out that I was wrong, as in the first match the woman outweighed me be 15 pounds, was far stronger than me, and easily wiped up the floor with me. However, that wasn’t the most embarrassing situation. Faced with the reality of being helpless at a woman’s hands I accepted that some athletic women really were more powerful than me, and most other men, and so I came to terms with losing to them.

Since then I have had 11 more matches and I have lost all of them. Even though I was losing consistently, I enjoyed the experience and I was okay with it. For the first 10 matches all of the ladies were impressive, athletic women with big, strong muscles. The last match, though, was the most embarrassing. I was matched against a little slip of a lady, about 5' 4" and weighing in at only about 120 pounds tops. She looked like a teenager, although she was actually a mom in her 20's. She was in good shape, but nothing awesome to look at in terms of athletics. Just a reasonably fit, lean young woman, cute to look at.. She could have been anybody you past on the street, or see working the cash register at the supermarket, waiting tables, or working in an office. Anybody.

As I said I am slender and not strong, but I was bigger than her by a fair amount. We arm wrestled before we started really wrestling and I beat her pretty easily.

So, I thought, "Finally, someone I can overpower." Well, I had the ultimate lesson in humility. That lady had the moves, the speed, and the aggressiveness she needed. She thoroughly kicked my @$$, tying me up in knots, immobilizing me with leg scissors or headlocks, twisting my arms behind my back, etc. She also made me beg for mercy if I wanted to be released from a hold, laughing at me and making sarcastic remarks at what a wuss I was the whole time. It was good natured fun and I still enjoyed it, but it was thoroughly embarrassing to have such an ordinary sized and normal looking young mom defeat me so easily.

I have come full circle on this. Having started out believing that a woman can’t beat a man, I now believe that any woman, properly trained, can beat just about any untrained male. Me, at least, for sure. LOL.

If anyone wants to know more about mixed wrestling, just Google "Female Wrestler List" and you will find links to sites which will educate you.

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  1. fitgirl0810 - 26-30 years old

    Posted by fitgirl0810 on April 14th, 2011 at 12:28 PM

    I can tell you firsthand there are some very athletic women maybe 1/1000 that can overpower their boyfriends or husbands in wrestling. Many women such as myself have exceptionally strong and flexible legs just look at the success rate girls are having against boys in highschool varsity wrestling. In the state of Alaska they have a state champion female wrestler. And I read an article that the girls are winning nationwide at a rate of 27% of all varsity matches against boys in the same weight classes. My husband and I like to wrestle each other for fun and since I know outweigh him by 40lbs and workout regularly to try to fight off my extra pounds much of it has turned into muscle. My legs have always been exceptionally muscular and strong much stronger than his even when we were first married we were both about the same weight at 145lbs. and similar heights at his 5ft8 to my 5ft7. I am now 190lbs to his 150lbs 6 years later. I admit I am a bit unusual in that I take Judo classes and self defense classes for women allthough I don t compete in tournaments. My husband is not athletic but he has a flat 4 pack like stomach and is more of a good looking model type of man. When we first were married we were almost even when we wrestled but things have changed and now I am much stronger and more skilled.I win 100% of the time and find it extreamly sexy sometimes to keep him in the submission hold after he taps out. I know this sounds dirty but I like to make him do me favors when I catch him in certain moves like headscissers and grapevines. Do any of you other girls have similar storys or mine completely unusual.

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    Reply by An EP User Dec 25th, 2014 at 11:59AM

  3. Tracytracy - 31-35 years old

    Posted by Tracytracy on August 12th, 2011 at 1:42 PM

    I luv being outpowered by a woman but most females don't like it at all unfortunately.Just thinking if a strong girl gets me going

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  4. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 25th, 2014 at 11:59AM

  5. Tracytracy - 31-35 years old

    Posted by Tracytracy on August 12th, 2011 at 1:42 PM

    I luv being outpowered by a woman but most females don't like it at all unfortunately.Just thinking if a strong girl gets me going

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  6. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 25th, 2014 at 11:59AM

  7. Gangelo7761 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Gangelo7761 on July 15th, 2012 at 8:13 PM

    When my wife first head scissored me she had me lounged face first against her *****. She wanted me to see her face and she wanted to see mine. As I struggled to get free she bore down harder. As I looked into her eyes she had this very intense look to her and her eyes were bugging out at me. The longer this went on the weaker I was getting. You can tell my wife was enjoying the power and control she had over me. I had no choice but to ask for mercy and tapp out. She also applies a mean figure four head scissors as well, great stuff.

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  8. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 25th, 2014 at 11:59AM

  9. captive - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by captive on September 25th, 2012 at 1:03 AM

    Well, this is the original poster. Just to let everybody know, I had another match with another small, slender woman who weighed in only at 118 pounds. She was even more skilled than the last woman who beat me and she wiped up the floor with me. Great fun in its own way. Good thing I don't mind the humiliation. Much.

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  10. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 25th, 2014 at 11:59AM

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