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a little scared to talk to girls at first.

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kyle4444 - 18-21 years old - male

Posted by kyle4444
on January 4th, 2011 at 6:12 PM


hey again...i have to tell this.....i am a little shy or scared to talk to any girl like the first time...i dont know i just get really scared and nervous.  i dont know if it is good or not.  idk if it is shyness or not but i get really scared to talk to a girl the first time i talk to her.  im fine talking to them on the net but talking to a girl that i see say in the library and going up and talking to her like right then and there.....idk i just cant do it.  its hard for me to do that. 

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  1. gat2drgn - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by gat2drgn on January 5th, 2011 at 3:06 PM

    If you think about them that way.. as a girl.. you wil always be shy.



    Girls are people. Just like you and me. Nothing to be afraid of (in general). Girls can make really great friends. The trick is not to approach them with an agenda. Women have a much more developed sense of reading feelings from your facial expressions, and that's not something you can fake. So, just be nice and say hello, and see if the conversation goes from there. If she snaps something rude, don't react, just walk away. Sometimes they can be defensive up front, and your not going to get past that on a first conversation. So just let it go. Thing is to keep trying with different people, you'll find it gets easier. Sometimes, you'll walk away, and the'll be like, **** i was so rude to that guy just now..



    Don't push, don't stalk, and don't stare. If they say.. leave me alone.. dude.. it's over.. move on. Women are not objects. They are not something to "obtain". If you have a girlfriend, she is not "YOURS". She is simply with you. And from experience, that can change at a moments notice.



    Women are people too.. they have similar fears.. expectations.. and they defend themselves verbally, not physically. Nothing to be "afraid of".



    I would stick to women/girls your own age, or younger. Most of the time, women your age are looking for men who are older and more mature... they can spot a shy guy a mile away, and then nothings going to happen. Younger girls, may be more open to conversation.. They may be wowed that you.. an older boy.. are even taking an interest.



    Think about it....

    If you really like a girl.. I.E. She's really pretty... Get to know her first. Before you go gaga over her.

    You might find out she's not for you.



    that's my 2 cents.....

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