I'm bored with my wife.

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Docjeepster - 41-45 years old - male

Posted by Docjeepster
on April 21st, 2011 at 11:04 AM

For nearly 20 years now our sex has been the same old thing.  She lays on her back and encourages me to 'hurry up' and finish.  No oral, not even what could be called foreplay.   **** I've banged church ladies with more sex drive than my wife...before we were married of course.  Topping it off is the fact that she is just plain bitchy...all the time.  F@CK!!!!!!! its driving me insane.  I haven't had a decent blow job in 20 years..havent had a decent...really decent ****** in that time either.  Is it any wonder I'm obsesssed with sex?  I've resisted cheating...have been tempted many, many times..but my kids and the idea that I could lose them for it..keeps me behaved.   ****!!!

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  1. Posted by An EP User on April 21st, 2011 at 11:16 AM

    Tell her. But don't make her feel like you're bored of her, just that you're bored of the same motions. It doesn't seem that she enjoys it though, talk to her about that. Apparent to me there are underlying issues.  

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  2. YourRoad2Awe - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by YourRoad2Awe on April 21st, 2011 at 11:49 AM


    Either file for a divorce, or try and see if she's cool if you had sex with other people.

    Hey, it's a strange day and age that we are living in.


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  3. shockme - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by shockme on April 21st, 2011 at 4:32 PM

    Spend a little cash and call and escort service, or go get a rub and tug. **** man! You haven't cheated, you don't get satisfied at home, wtf? All you want is a good ******. I wouldn't see it as cheating if you did that.

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  4. Arielove67 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Arielove67 on April 21st, 2011 at 11:55 PM

    Tell her what you want. She's probably completely clueless. Try to get her to try new things. Most women love an adventure!

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  5. Docjeepster - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Docjeepster on April 22nd, 2011 at 3:14 PM

    She isn't clueless. I've told her, spoken to her about it and nothing changes. I've begged...shamelessly for change...and she simply refuses. ****!!!

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  6. mollymcbutternuts - 22-25 years old

    Reply by mollymcbutternuts Apr 10th, 2012 at 1:17PM

    Never having been in your position I can't even imagine. Sorry for you. Really. Glad I have a great sex group to be a part of and lots of friends to have sex with. So there's your answer, just find some "friends with benefits". That's not cheating that's having fun with friends. You aren't doing anything with them you wouldn't do with any other friend - who dropped her drawers and let you **** her or sucked you off, right?


  7. Docjeepster - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by Docjeepster Apr 12th, 2012 at 1:41PM

    sounds fun. I'd like FWB


  8. dave06 - 51-55 years old

    Posted by dave06 on April 27th, 2011 at 4:46 PM

    yep...this sounds so familiar-i was married for 20+years and my wife has lost interest in sex-she'd rather watch TV, sleep, or read a book. I was so fed up that I went on a dating website and had an affair which lasted for over a year before the lady ended it. So I had another one and then my wife found out. She must have wanted me back because we had so much sex that week-elevn or twelve times in all sorts of amazing positions!

    But all good things must come to an end and she's gone back to her sleep, her reading and her TV and I'm left to twiddle my fingers. I'm too tired she says. Huh.

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  9. Docjeepster - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Docjeepster on April 27th, 2011 at 5:25 PM


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  10. seattlejobud - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by seattlejobud on August 2nd, 2012 at 7:00 PM

    I totally understand your situation. I am very unhappy with my marriage, have stayed all these years for my boys. 5 years ago, i had an affair and fell in love with a woman that was wonderful for me, had everything i was looking for and brought out the best in me. She left her husband and kept trying to get me to leave. finally 2 years ago, she told me not to contact her again, moved on with her life and has a bf. Now my boys are graduated, on their own, and I am without the woman I still love. My counselor says no matter what I do (or would have done) the boys would adjust. Dont make my mistake, I foolishly sacrificed what I wanted. Your children will adjust and someday will have their own life, make sure you live yours...

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  11. a113437175 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by a113437175 on October 2nd, 2012 at 12:08 AM

    I met her at age 19 and married at 27, married now for 19 years. The last 15 years have progressively lost love. I tried to get her into my business when I started on my own with a safe solution for her to try it and if she did not like it to go back to her career job. She refused. I tried again for her to go on her own without me and I would get her all started. She did not do it.

    I have grown the business over the years and have given family a comfortable life. The business, stress and associates have changed me over time. I am attracted to women that are strong and business minded. It is overwhelming and uncontrollable.

    I have re-connected with an ex-employee from the time I first started after 9-years of loosing touch. We never did anything but I was attracted to her for her motivation and fiery spirit to succeed in business. Now she is my partner in another company and we are a fantastic professional team. We have connected in love as well. I want to leave my marriage and spend my life with someone that shares my passion. I tried! I have one boy, age 15, currently that adores me and I him. He looks up to me. He is strong and level headed as I am. I know that at some point he may understand this decision I find getting closer and closer.

    My wife suspects and is hunting around my every move. I am passionate about my newfound love. I feel shameful at times. I don't and did not want this. My heart says to listen to it. My duty as a father says another. My duty towards the promise I made when I said "I do" at the altar is haunting me.

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  12. a113437175 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by a113437175 on October 2nd, 2012 at 12:25 AM

    To Jocjeepster: There is such a thing as Chemistry. Your wife bores you to death because there is none. You force adapt. Deep inside the yearn and passion for a suitable partner is eating you and will continue. What do you do? Find your happiness. That is what matters to quality of life in the end. The many Taboos, attachments and concerns are the check valve that hold us back.

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