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Wants to be friends with my ex

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IamySelf - 18-21 years old - female

Posted by IamySelf
on June 9th, 2011 at 2:06 AM


I went jogging today and ran by my ex jogging also. We didnt say hi because we are in no speaking terms because he might still be holding anger against me, but i'm not going to lie. I do miss him at times (as friends) We ended in really bad terms, i guess i could say it was my fault because i treated him bad and he broke up with me. My husband is not fond with the idea of me being friends or hanging out with my ex. 





Do you think it is bad to pursue this friendship?

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  1. Posted by An EP User on June 9th, 2011 at 2:17 AM

    Yes, I do think its a bad idea to pursue this friendship. I think you only want to be friends because you want to make amends for hurting him. Just say hi next time you see him and smile, and leave it at that.

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  2. Mariner2 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Mariner2 on July 11th, 2011 at 9:47 PM

    You're married now, and you should really consider your husbands feelings on the matter. Additionally, you obviously once had feelings for this other gentleman, and opening an ongoing dialog with him could inadvertently re- ignite a flame that shouldn't be burning. It is plausible that you may be vulnerable right now too with your husband being gone. You need to consider all of this. And be careful that you don't find yourself in a mess. It could easily happen.

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