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lonelyheartofmine - 36-40 years old - female

Posted by lonelyheartofmine
on June 23rd, 2011 at 7:37 PM

I'm upset that one of my closest friends ignores me all the time.  My other friend tells me its because she is going through stuff and has a lot going on.  But I have a hard time believing this due to the fact I see she has time to make comments on every other persons post but can't even respond to a simple text message from me regarding a party I'm having. I post things about how I'm doing or feeling and she never makes comments about them, but she does to everyone else.  It hurts and makes me angry.  I just don't know what to do any more.  I'm sick of being an after thought or just not thought of at all. Makes me wonder where I really stand in her life.  Maybe that's just it I don't have a place in her life anymore.  I'm sad and hurt over this and just had to let it out....

And my dear friend of 23+ years I know what your going to say and I'm sorry but it's still not right and I think your wrong on this one.  Because she makes the effort to contact you and others and ignores me... I have gotten the picture... Loud and clear..



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  1. laxloveee - 16-17 years old

    Posted by laxloveee on June 23rd, 2011 at 8:37 PM

    I have the same situation with my long time best friend. I ALWAYS put her first, go out of my way for her and I'm always an after thought to her. But I love her too much to do anything about it.

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User May 22nd, 2015 at 8:02AM

  3. 88jessiekay88 - 61-65 years old

    Posted by 88jessiekay88 on June 23rd, 2011 at 9:41 PM

    It doesn't sound as though she is much of a friend. If I were you I would stick with the friends who do not ignore you. This friend you are talking about is more concerned with others and will only use you when it is necessary. You could also talk to her face to face about the issue. But I would have to say to dump her as a friend and don't go back. It's not right for anyone to be treated like she is treating you.

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  4. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User May 22nd, 2015 at 8:02AM

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