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TinaLouise79 - 31-35 years old - female

Posted by TinaLouise79
on September 1st, 2011 at 5:54 AM

Yesterday 2 room mate I had move out just a few days before rent is due. I know why they left and it was because I would not let him jump on a friend of mine in my room, yelling and cussing her like a dog, I thought he was going to hit her. So I jumped up off my bed and told him he will not talk to her that way! He smarted off to me and I all the sudden could not see anything but black! I remember swinging on him and hitting him several times! A friend of mine grabbed me by my wrist and looked me in the eyes saying my name. The look in his eyes was pure terror. I have never seen that look in his eyes before. I stopped and told my room mate (Robert) to get the hell out of my room. He did and I felt like a complete *** for acting that way! I just dont like people who think its ok to just go around bulling others!

Well they both left and I was told he left because I did not say I was sorry for going off on him. I think he needs to talk to my friend who was scared shitless by him and tell her he is sorry too! I do agree I should have said I was sorry, and I did today.

So my point is now I don't have part of the rent they were suppose to give. I don't know what I am going to do!

I guess next time I will think about it before I let my emotions take over and do stupid things, but part of me feel's like that son of a ***** deserved to get beat for talking to another woman the way he did! She had no idea what she did to him to make him mad! I thought he was going to hit her so I felt I had to protect her!

Do you all think I was in the wrong for acting the way I did? I kinda feel that if I did not act like that he would be here and I would not have this problem, but if I did nothing he would think its okay to disrespect me and my friends. Anyways! Thanks for reading all my craziness!  bye for now!

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  1. aprilriver - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by aprilriver on September 1st, 2011 at 9:13 AM

    If he was on the lease then it isn't your problem but if it was only you on the lease you could always go to small claim court or file a civil suit for the rent up till the end of the lease.

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    Reply by An EP User May 25th, 2015 at 8:51PM

  3. TinaLouise79 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by TinaLouise79 on September 1st, 2011 at 1:48 PM

    relapsedagain~ Thank you! I once was in a abusive relationship too! I will never ever just sit back and let a man treat a woman bad in front of me or even hit a woman while I am around. I just cant watch that ****!

    aprilriver~Ya I am on the lease only. He was not on the lease. He is a pig!

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  4. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User May 25th, 2015 at 8:51PM

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