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I Hate My Niece

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Posted by Anonymous
on November 12th, 2011 at 1:51 AM


I need to get this off my chest before I explode. To me, my niece is a horrible, annoying child. Whenever she was around, life would become a living hell. I have nothing but bad memories of her, and I have been haunted by those memories many times. My family don't understand why I hate her, but if they knew her the way I did, if they knew about the mental torture she causes me, they'd understand.

When she was little, she used to torment her little brother. I heard about her bouncing her ball on his head and I think one time she kicked him while she was sitting in a chair. Years ago, was the worst year of my entire life. It was when my sister and her family came to live with us because my (now ex) brother-in-law had no job. My sister, her husband, and my niece put my parents and I through hell. We were practically forced to stay in our rooms while they took over the house. My niece would mess up the place, crap all over the place (she was around five and is mildly autistic, but she still knew better than to do these things), she screamed alot, and break all sorts of things. She once broke the outer screen of our big screen tv with the ottoman, even after we told her not to scoot it too close to the tv. She was very defiant, she wouldn't do as she was told, and she is still this way. Not only that but I never had a moment of peace because she wouldn't stop bothering me or leave me alone. All of this along with other chaos drove me to lash out at her.

I was relieved when my sister and her family left, especially that demon child. But that year still left me disturbed. It took me some time to get better, but I am still haunted by the memories. Then a couple of years later (I think) my sister and her kids came to live with us again for a while because her husband cheated on her (she should've left him after he acted inappropiately towards me the year they lived with us.) My niece had hardly changed. She did all sorts of annoying things and she was a drama queen about doing things she didn't want to do (my dad broke her of this by mimicking her.) I one day went to my mom in private and broke down crying. I couldn't through another year of living like we did those years ago. Fortunately, it was not long before my sister and her kids left.

Because of all of the misery my niece caused, I've pretty much cut off family ties with her. I don't consider her family. Lately, she's been having issues at school, yet I don't feel sorry for her. I know I should, but I don't. I can't help but feel like she deserved it after all the hell she has caused me and others. I don't care if people disagree with me about my feelings about her. If you knew her the way I did you'd understand. I wish she never existed.

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  1. nyxabovetime - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by nyxabovetime on November 30th, 2011 at 8:37 AM

    I wouldn't put the blame entirely on her, but rather bad parenting. I understand she's your sister, but a lot of how to act socially appropriate is up too the parents, not the child.

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  2. imprisonedaunt - 36-40 years old

    Posted by imprisonedaunt on January 18th, 2012 at 7:35 PM

    I totally understand where you are coming from. I agree also that the parenting must totally suck. I have a demon niece too and a brother that is completely oblivious to how wrong and terrible her behavior and their parenting actually is. I feel your pain...everyday.

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  3. vivianne1 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by vivianne1 on November 26th, 2012 at 6:52 PM

    My niece is a total ****.....she is 30'ish and act's like the world revolves around her....she cares no more for a gnat than a human being.....all I can advise is to move on.

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  4. vivianne1 - 46-50 years old

    Reply by vivianne1 Nov 26th, 2012 at 6:53PM

    I totally hate her and wish I had never met her

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  5. hurtza - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by hurtza on November 30th, 2012 at 6:50 PM

    I completely understand. My niece comes across as cute and perfect but once her parents disappear from sight the real "Mary" comes out. She does anything and everything in her power to provoke my daughter and other niece. She has the entire family thinking that she is the smart well mannered one but in reality she is not. Her most favorite past time hitting one of the other kids then when they hit her back or tell her to stop she yells for her dad (my brother) and makes out she was the one who is the innocent. It cause problems between my brother and myself because he cant stand it when you put his kid in her place. As far as he is concerned she is the eldest so she must be telling the truth and the other kids are lying. All I can say is I cant wait until he realizes what a devious self centered child he has and he will one day.

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  6. MiserableGrl - 31-35 years old

    Posted by MiserableGrl on December 5th, 2012 at 11:38 AM

    Omg that sounds like my niece! I can't stand her!!! She is only 5 but doesn't like me either as I have to become a disciplinarian when her mom has reached her wit's end. They live upstairs in my house - similar situation. She's an absolute monster and I wouldn't be surprised if she was a psychopath too, after seeing her smack my mom's dog. She whips stuff everywhere and smashes her toys against my hardwood floors, etc. I dread to see the place after they move. I can't imagine she'll change much in life and I have no use for her in mine. Good riddance when they finally move.

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  7. sickofthem23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by sickofthem23 on July 23rd, 2013 at 3:42 AM

    we're on the same boat. but she wasn't really my niece. she's my husband's niece and seeing her just ruins my day. she's a whiny, bratty and annoying pre-schooler and somehow my husband and his family thinks she's a gift from God.



    while yes, it should be blamed on bad parenting, somehow, I understand how you feel.

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  8. evelynkh - 36-40 years old

    Posted by evelynkh on October 27th, 2013 at 3:18 PM

    It is such a relief to see these posts and know it's not just me. My niece is vile. She is five but has always been difficult even as a small baby. So much so that her parents changed her mind about having a second child. They changed it again, though, and her brother, two years younger, is the gentlest, most loving child you could ever wish to meet. It's obviously not the parenting and they are just chalk and cheese by nature. Part of me thinks as a grown up, I shouldn't feel like this towards a four and now five-year old but she is just vile. We'll be happily playing on the floor with toys when she'll pull her leg right back to suddenly kick me in the head with as much force as she can. Only just today, she cuddled up to me as if to give me a kiss on the cheek only for her to bite me instead. I f*cking hate the child. I think if she died, I actually wouldn't care.

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