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I want to be noticed!

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outdoorfire - 22-25 years old - male

Posted by outdoorfire
on January 16th, 2012 at 10:03 PM

I simply want to be noticed. It's not like I don't notice pretty women - heck they are all over the place. What stops girls though from flirting a little bit? Through a look, a quick touch, a wink - something! Are there any females out there who can tell me more of what goes through your mind when you are out walking around, or taking a drive and a guy catches your attention. How do you let him know he's been noticed, or do you at all?

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  1. shorty2011 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by shorty2011 on January 16th, 2012 at 10:07 PM

    Let me start off, I know how you feel. Next I know for me and speaking for me only that when I see a guy that I think is good looking I try to make eye contact and smile a little more. But that's just me cause I am way to shy to just go up to someone and talk to them.

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User May 26th, 2015 at 12:46AM

  3. sugarfooties - 66-70 years old

    Posted by sugarfooties on January 16th, 2012 at 10:32 PM

    The problem is that guys like to flirt with women, but when a woman flirts with a guy 9 times out of 10 the guy's mind will say something like hey, she likes me, she must want to **** me. He then acts on that assumption, when usually all she was thinking was something like hey, he's cute, wonder if he'll smile back. To most women, a touch on a guy's arm is just that. To most men, it seems to be an invitation to touch her anywhere and everywhere. This is what the vast majority of us have learned, and why we seem so stand-offish.  

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  4. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User May 26th, 2015 at 12:46AM

  5. outdoorfire - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by outdoorfire Jan 16th, 2012 at 10:35PM

    I'd reply by saying its a shame. I think our culture has created a mockery out of human appreciation. We should be able to say hello, share a touch, give a look without the assumption that it's either going to end in something that we'd regret or that it has to be an automatic jump to sexual experiences.


  6. realityvsdream - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by realityvsdream on January 18th, 2012 at 12:11 AM

    I agree with sugarfooties, it can backfire on us. I grew up learning that it was the man to make the first move. Although, to be honest, there was a few times in my teenage years, that I went up to the guy and made eye contact and started looking at something in front of me, then waited to see if he said anything to me or I smiled and said hi.In my older years, if I really like a man, I do seem to keep looking at him though :)

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    Reply by An EP User May 26th, 2015 at 12:46AM

  8. rikkiryder - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by rikkiryder on January 20th, 2012 at 10:25 PM

    Well being that I'm a little flirty when I notice a hottie I will give a flirtatious smile or pull my sunglasses down and look over them and smile at him. I find it exhilarating and exciting to tell a guy how hot he is without saying a word:)

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  9. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User May 26th, 2015 at 12:46AM

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