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LoveMusik - 31-35 years old - female

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Posted by LoveMusik
on February 11th, 2012 at 6:19 AM


How can i even try to forgive him? I sound mowny writing this, BUT IT¨S JUST NOT FARE!
After my 1st child was one years old, we started to get ready for another one. But....7 years later this isent happening. We have tried everything except fertility help....And why?? Because he dosent want to put his "mojo" in a cup to be analized!!!   I so hate him for that. Ive explained that if he dosent go for the tests they wont help me with my infertility. This has got to the point where ive been going to therapy for 3 years. Im told to forgive and forget....HA!!!   Fat chance.
I want to get over this, but how do i forgive him for ruinning my last chance to get a posible result???   If it dosent work, well, then there is nothing left to do, I would have to accept that.

Please do not say things like: "Oh well, at least you have one child" Or "Theres too many unwanted children in the world already...dont be selfish by wanting to have another one", ect.

Thankyou xxx

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  1. kubisr18 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by kubisr18 on February 11th, 2012 at 8:16 AM

    I have been there! Three things you can do. Ask your fertility doctor to accept a sample you bring in. Which could be fun right :). Second ask your fertility doctor what they would prescribe if he has a low ***** count. Usually it is an antibiotic fix. If hubby won't budge on bringing in a sample maybe he would be willing to just take the medication without testing. Is it possible he had a vasectomy and you didn't know it? Does he want another child too?

    Forgive me for even suggesting this, but there are always others who may be doners......

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  2. LoveMusik - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by LoveMusik on February 12th, 2012 at 7:02 AM

    Its me that has the fertility problem. They wont treat me if he wont comply.

    Do you mean.... to take someone else with me??

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