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Why are women so messy on jobs?

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Gray51 - 51-55 years old - female

Posted by Gray51
on March 15th, 2012 at 10:50 AM


When I was in the working field out in public, thank God I do my own work at home now, my career is working with children I'm a child care provider, I love this field.  I had always had problem in the daycare center with the other women always had for some reason just didn't like me  they would act like they do, we may talk some and I have a very sweet personality I do not mistreat the child I give them plenty love and attention I do not half step with my job I know what to do and I do it well, I keep my appearance up nicely,  If you seen me come in your daycare for a job there the employer would hire me right off the spot because I just had it like that but don't get me wrong I am not that person being conceited nor stuck-up no that is not me at all, I'm very giving if I have it to give you can have it.  I have walked off of some jobs crying with plenty tears because of the way I was treated by some of the women, they would get together for I don't know for what reasons against me showing bad attitude toward me and God knows I don't know why and yes this do hurt.  I just wanted to confess this because it hurts and I just want to know if someone could tell me what was I doing wrong?  It has hurt every time.

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  1. berangere - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by berangere on March 6th, 2013 at 9:54 PM

    You did not do anything wrong,you do your job very well and they might feel threatened by it,sadly it seems that you are being bullied,it could be just one woman who influences the others.I know that you feel very uncomfortable because you are sensitive and have picked up that all is not well.If there is a woman amongst them you are particularly close to work on a friendship with her.if things do not improve may be it would be better to walk away,bullying does take its toll,people on the receiving end can become depressed some have even taken their own lives.it would not be a weakness on your part to leave it would be self preservation. Bullying is very ugly and sadly very little is being done about it because bullies are quite clever at what they do.Hugs and take care.

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  2. Gray51 - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Gray51 on March 8th, 2013 at 9:18 PM

    Thank you for all your encouraging words it do help me a lot. Thanks,

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