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Treating Strangers Better then Your Family

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hwood773 - 26-30 years old - male

Posted by hwood773
on March 29th, 2012 at 8:55 PM


Do you know someone(mother /father /wife/husband) or maybe even be in a situation where someone treats you like gum under there shoe while they shine bright and go out on a limb for others??? I DO, I personally believe that distance creates comfort for them, because they can create there "own" image or facade of who they wanna be without strangers/friends truly knowing/challenging who they are..Fresh starts and lack of history puts them in a position to control how people think about them, where as family knows the intricate details about who they are, so therefore, they feel exposed and no longer entitled to impress or put in the effort anymore..Should you be angry or feel pity for them? Give in or Give Up? Except or Reject? I really dont know but one thing i do stand behind is dont let anyone ever tear you away from your moral fabric, Dont let there actions steer yours, continue to stand your ground and treat others as you want to be treated. The worse thing you can do to a problem is let it consume you.

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  1. Posted by An EP User on March 29th, 2012 at 9:22 PM

    You are talking about the moron that I am going to divorce next year. He has bug fears of showing his reality to people, he acts so innocent and makes me sound the bad person, he never wants to admit that he abused me emotionally that is why I call him my **** some people give me the evil looks but I don't care what these people think of me because I know there is someone ouy there better than him who loves me with every single breathe he takes and there are so many good people who would stand in front of the moron and his family telling them that everything they will say or do from lies to defend themselves will go against them. Thank you for openning up this subject, I do hope you are like my friend that I have lost in my teenage years, he was one of the biggest loyal fans of Ludacris but I guess maybe now if he fulfilled his dreams and ambitions, he is probably someone famous just like ludacris :)

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  3. hwood773 - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by hwood773 Apr 2nd, 2012 at 7:32PM

    Im glad this was a subject someone else can relate too...unfortunately im the one on the receiving end of this treatment...I was with someone for 4yrs and we seperated 3months ago and ever since then ive done nothing except try to be a good friend, and show that i care but unfortunately she does not appreciate me and takes me for granted. She Lies, easily blows things out of proportion and simply just gives herself a reason to dislike me and push me away. The saddest part about everything is that though i try to remain a constant caring person in her life she would rather disregard me and treat all her associates as a higher priority then myself, that hurts alot. I know i should move on and just let her be but i feel as if i know the true good person in her and she's just going through a phase and if i just stick it out and remain there she may eventually realize that my words are sincere and my gestures are genuine. All i know is we all are accountable for our actions and there consequences. Its just sad when its done to good people. As the comment about ludacris..LOL i dont know whether your joking cuz ive been told i look like him many of times or your being serious but either way...I hope your friend is happy thats really all that matters..

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  4. Sahour221286 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Sahour221286 Apr 3rd, 2012 at 2:34PM

    Looking at your situation seems to be so complicated, she is like any lady who thinks that the innocent ones are guilty and the guilty ones are innocent, just like the man I am waiting with patience to divorce him, he never made me feel the love, he always made me feel that i am a big chance for him, a bank account in a way he never wanted me to live, I used to feel like i am begging him to spend time out clubbing but he never made me feel like he wanted to live life, he did not even show me that he can handle responsibility, he only wants everything easy for him to come without working hard and what really worse is that he cheats on me and i could not because everything would go against me, i only did what he did, like he made someone put her nose in our life teaching me how to be patient on him, i told a friend who is a guy about my misery but that guy is someone who keeps secrets, i prefer to ask advice from my family because our parents are only onesxwho know us ver well and they can teach us to be good wives but the bad people don't want a strong wife, they want someone weak they can control and do anything without asking and if they try to ask they end up being abused. I believe there is someone out there for me who cares for me and doesn't mind having a strong woman in his life because if there is someone who can handle the responsibility of raising a baby girl then the guy who loves her blindly will feel peaceful because she is what he wanted in a woman.

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