So Amy and I have been broken up for a wile now but still kind of messing around once in a while. When about three weeks ago she tells me she has a new boy friend and that she cant talk to me any more. So I tell her “if that’s what you want I will walk away” and don’t hear anything from her for about a few weeks. Then she sends me a bunch of text messages late at night all about how she misses me and all that, so I text her back and we talk for a while. Then yester day I get a call from her number but, it’s some dude calling himself “Steve Amy’s boyfriend” and I’m like “what do you want” and he starts making silly threats and silly accusations saying I better not text anymore “red flags” or “talk any more ****” So I’m like “**** you buddy don’t ever call me again!” and then I text Amy “I hope this guy makes you happy because 15 years of friendship between you and I is now over, loose my number I never want to hear from you ever again.” (bad times)
I am not good at relationships.
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I don't get why you took it out on Amy when it was the bonehead that called you. Kinda harsh, don't ya think? And, really, if the guy thinks Amy is being faithful to him don't you think it would have been a bit of a shock to find out that she hasn't been? And, lastly, don't you say in your next confession that you've learned your lesson about having a relationship with someone that isn't available?
C'mon my Friend. You're way more grounded and together than this. You've got it together, don't lose it. -
I wish that things had turned out differently but, when her ex-husband confronted me, he and I fought and at that time, I was under the impression that I was protecting her from an abusive ex that she was trying to escape from but, in light of recent events I have come to believe that she antagonized him the same way she is doing to me. If she were telling him there is still some chance of reconciliation while maintaining a relationship with me then I can see why he might want to do me harm. I think that she is trying to set up a dramatic conflict between this “Steve” character and myself the same way I now believe she set up a conflict between Dennis and me. If I am right about this then I have done harm to an innocent man when I engaged in battle with Dennis and if I am right about this then the best thing for everybody involved is for me to be entirely out of the equation. I don’t mean to be harsh but, she broke my already damaged heart and there is more than just this one incident that leads me to the conclusions I have come to. Things like her false name on facebook that I asked her about months earlier and she swore it wasn’t her then facebook recommended that page to me and I noticed that her ex boyfriend and best friend were the only two friends on the page so confronted her again and she admitted it to me and on and on with more and deceit and lies really bother me I have better thing to do with my time then chase a ghost of a relationship. I loved her so much but, in my opinion the best thing is a clean brake. She will go her way and I will go mine.
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Please do go your way, look towards a brighter future with someone that will love you, and want you, and cherish you, and will want to share herself with you. Maybe Amy entered into your life when you desperately needed somebody, but you're a different person now and there's no need to love someone who has hurt you and been deceitful. Amy was not the right one for you, she was just right for the moment. I'm looking forward to hearing about the day you found a woman who is sharing that glorious glow of happiness with you.
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