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crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

Posted by crazihilary
on May 9th, 2012 at 7:18 AM


I am happy to be back after a long time. I really liked this site, Its really a good emotional cushion when you have so much to tell. Okay I was hiding a deep secret and I guess Its will be good if I spell it out. Well I think If I share this with any of my friend, it may create misunderstandings so I am left with no other option but EP.

Whenever I started liking someone, I became extremely jealous when that person (most of the time She)  is spending time with someone else (He). I know its not good to be jealous, but it comes out naturally, although I do not express it, I find it really hard to keep it inside, or show reverse feelings. To add more I have felt this kind of thing mostly when I started liking any girl, I do make sure that the person does not get any hint of my negative feelings, but i really feel i have no right to be jealous...!!

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  1. MyLoserAlterEgo - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by MyLoserAlterEgo on May 9th, 2012 at 7:26 AM

    jealousy is often a symptom that something is wrong with a relationship. when a relationship feels broken, we often assume the existence of a third party so we can avoid blaming ourselves or our partner for the failure.

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  2. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by crazihilary May 9th, 2012 at 7:32AM

    well in my case, it comes out naturally. there were really nothing wrong with our relationship, i just feel a fear of loosing that person.

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  3. mistamew - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by mistamew May 9th, 2012 at 8:27AM

    i like what you said alter ego guy!

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  4. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by crazihilary on May 9th, 2012 at 7:31 AM

    well in my case, it comes out naturally. there were really nothing wrong with our relationship, i just feel a fear of loosing that person.

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  5. Sowel - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Sowel on May 9th, 2012 at 7:31 AM

    It is perfectly fine to feel like that after all there is nothing you can do to prevent or change it so there is no reason for people to get upset with you.

    You are doing the right thing by trying not to let it all out because that can put a lot of pressure on the other person, it is however some times good to talk things over and reassure yourself that everything is fine... Just don't let it all out at once



    Jealousy horrible thing to go through and I don't envy you one bit.

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  6. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by crazihilary May 9th, 2012 at 7:35AM

    You are right its such a horrible thing to go through..

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  7. dolly99 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by dolly99 on May 9th, 2012 at 8:11 AM

    you have to learn to trust someone if they love you truly you will find yourself not being jelous obivsly you havent met the right person yet

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  8. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by crazihilary May 9th, 2012 at 8:19AM

    I agree I never been in a committed relationship so i continue feeling being jealous under these circumstances..!

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  9. SaintMaj - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by SaintMaj on May 9th, 2012 at 8:17 AM

    don't listen to bullshit ! Some of the guys (We) are just jealous by nature.That's the reason why She (she) has to be careful.It's a matter of trust.And than when we start to trust (I) no longer feel jealousy (Feeling)

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  10. mistamew - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by mistamew on May 9th, 2012 at 8:33 AM

    i am naturally a jealous person, but i don't get that feeling with others i like but have nothing against.



    i believe that your feeling that way for internal reasons, just as i do; it isn't the person thats making you jealous, but rather something within you.

    my suggestion is to meditate on your jealousy, because when i did, i got a lot of answers.



    when jealousy creeps over me, i feel it, i don't disassociate from it. After its been felt, i let it go, and thats that!



    if i catch myself imposing it on a boyfriend or a friend, i say "that was out of jealousy And i don't mean to act on instinct with it".

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  11. YoungFolks - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by YoungFolks on May 9th, 2012 at 3:43 PM

    Hey. I only learn by mistakes. If I have a stupid feeling I can't shake off, I just talk about it with the said person, they call me stupid, and the feeling dies away, out of shame.

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  12. Lizzyanneshort - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Lizzyanneshort on July 17th, 2013 at 11:31 PM

    You could try talking to her, if the relationship is strong and true then I don't believe you should anything to worry about

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  13. crazihilary - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by crazihilary Jul 18th, 2013 at 1:23AM

    I know, but I have never been in a true relationship, so that bonding have never been attained. I have come up of it.

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