Tired of the name callings.

This is a on going thing, my ex boyfriend pretend that he love me and times that I let him come over to my house for a night or two he always want to start a argument calling me out of my name, I have been called so many times a B***H and I am not doing anything to be called that, he is so disrespectful  toward me when he gets mad, and when he over that madness try to sooth things over, and to remind you I pay my own bills I support my own self and he stay with his mom, he don't work or anything to support his self he's just a looser and I'm just a fool to let myself keep going through that over and over again, but of course  my stupid self I would get vunible and weaken down and let him come back over and it's just like a tape recording over and over the way that he do me.  I got to get over that, how would you solves this, but before it's all over I want to let him know that I can do better than him, I want to show him some things, I want him to hurt like hell for what he has taken me through and I'm not trying to be all that and I'm not a bad looking person at all. I could be with someone else if I wanted too, but that's not me if my heart is not in it.  Please I need your advise.  Thank You, I want him to hurt and feel the pain.