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I hate my "best friend" now.

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sweetsydchris - 18-21 years old - female

Posted by sweetsydchris
on July 25th, 2012 at 4:19 PM


My best friend and I were supposed to hang out once. around 8ish (pm) i texted her to see if we were still hanging out. No reply. Then around 10 pm i said ill take that as a no. So she finally texted back saying her mom said we couldnt hang out because of the weather (it was raining) and she fell asleep. i told her i wish she would have told me that so i wasnt sitting at home hours on end waiting to hang out with her. then she freaked out on me. she was saying i spend too much time with my boyfriend and not with my friends and family. then a few days later she gave my sister a note she wrote to me saying that im hurting my friends and family, and my dad specifically, because i hang with my boyfriend. she had NO RIGHT to say that. she has no idea. If she had a serious boyfriend that she loved she'd understand. and my friends and family are not hurting from me. maybe just her. If she wants to fix it, she can. But for now, i hate her. it all sounds really childish. to top it off she deleted me off of facebook. childish, right? She's 17, im 18. i mean, come on?  

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  1. TwistdInTheHeadThtsWhyNoFrnds - 26-30 years old

    Posted by TwistdInTheHeadThtsWhyNoFrnds on July 25th, 2012 at 4:32 PM

    Lies..lies lies!Your "one" who hates me,but guess what darling so many and we mean many "don't like you"! Thanks for the hate "Hater". Hater= just means hate= hate means jealousy=jealousy means envy=envy means=coveting=coveting means wanting something someone else has that you can not have. When someone is hateful towards you,always remember you know it's working and you must be doing something right. So thanks again fan!  

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  2. sweetsydchris - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by sweetsydchris Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:36PM

    i dont get what you're saying?

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  3. FashionQueen86 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by FashionQueen86 on July 25th, 2012 at 4:34 PM

    You are right; she should have been generous enough to tell you that everything was canceled. I have been in those situations before, where you wait, wait and wait, putting off plans you could done during that lost time for something that never happened.



    As far as she blaming you for hanging out with your boyfriend more, I see two sides to this. When girls have boyfriends it is too common that they often DO spend more time with their boyfriend then their friends and sometimes friends can be threatened by that, which is a good sign becuase it shows that your friends still value and urge for your time. Often times girls are so distracted the butterflies in their stomachs that they don't tend to even out their time with both friends and their boyfriend. However, she could have just been using this as a way to attack you to put more blame on you



    I also think the note she written was a little dramatic, making this out to be some huge problem you've created for people you've probably never knew to be involved. She's just being a dramatic drama queen, but she also may be hurt by some things.



    I would not hate her over this. It's okay to be annoyed and upset, but hate is pretty strong. You have far more important and bigger things to worry about then a girl that is still growing and maturing.

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  4. sweetsydchris - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by sweetsydchris Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:42PM

    thank you, she definently needs to grow and mature. i know her too well lol. youre right, maybe i dont "hate" her, but the things she did were over dramatic things that i dont think were needed. i just dont feel like i should talk to her unless she wants to talk, you know? once she's matured, then ill talk :p her little brother even told me she's b*tching about it and she cant say that stuff to me because she doesnt spend time with her family.

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  5. FashionQueen86 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by FashionQueen86 Jul 25th, 2012 at 4:43PM

    If she's still b*tching about it, then that means she either misses you or is thinking about you a lot. :)

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  6. holysoul - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by holysoul on July 25th, 2012 at 4:40 PM

    Well, real friends are not supposed to do this to each other, if her friendship means something to you, if her place as a friend can't be replaced, if you feel that you did something bad to her ...just go and talk to her , because it's really silly to lose people we love for some stupid reasons, on the other side I think that she shouldn't have be mad at you becasue of your hanging out with your Bff, I think she sould've come and explain to you what was disturbing her...

    that happens all the time .. people give more attention to their Bf or Gf than their friends and family , I say thais because I've been through the same situation as your friend , But I do understan what it takes to have a Bf...I think that is because we have so many friends but when it comes to love we have just that one person and we are always afraid of losing him or her...

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