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HoneyLaaLa - 18-21 years old - female

Posted by HoneyLaaLa
on July 28th, 2012 at 7:17 PM

How we live in a world were cheaters are the ones that are in relationships and the faithful people are single.

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  1. ElviraGoth - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by ElviraGoth on July 28th, 2012 at 7:28 PM

    I know. It's weird. The people who truly deserve love and who are fit to be in a relationship..are single! :(

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  2. HoneyLaaLa - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by HoneyLaaLa Jul 28th, 2012 at 7:37PM

    yeaa. i gave up all hope...


  3. NaiveLil1 - 22-25 years old

    Reply by NaiveLil1 Aug 5th, 2012 at 10:27PM

    Don't. I think it will always hurt to think about but take relief at least in the wisdom you have. There are others who are hurt and looking for someone like you


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  4. Tatteredheart - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Tatteredheart on July 28th, 2012 at 7:31 PM

    Couldn't be any truer.

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  5. StfComplex - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by StfComplex on July 28th, 2012 at 7:47 PM

    If you're quick to give up hope

    That says your hope was never

    really strong ... one setback can ruin it ...Faith requires strength

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  6. usetobhisboo - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by usetobhisboo Jul 29th, 2012 at 7:58AM

    U know my hubby cheated on me 2 yrs ago and trusting him an givin him or us another chance has turn me all over again after 2 yrs he is trying to talk to her again so after 21 yrs here is no hope or trust. Now i have to let kids know where i stand an this scares ansaddens me the most.


  7. Torithree - 41-45 years old

    Reply by Torithree Jul 29th, 2012 at 11:19PM

    I was married for 23 years. When the trust is broke, it's hard to repair. I know what your going through.


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  8. ShadowBugz - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by ShadowBugz on July 29th, 2012 at 1:02 PM

    Because faithful people are waiting for the right person to be in a relationship with while the cheaters are already rushing themselves into one.

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  9. NaturalGropius - 18-21 years old

    Posted by NaturalGropius on July 29th, 2012 at 1:32 PM

    We live in an upside-down world.

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  10. onusofmylife - 36-40 years old

    Posted by onusofmylife on July 29th, 2012 at 7:37 PM

    Cheaters have chosen to prioritise their needs. They believe in I ME MYSELF and they enjoy each moment with single track mind focussed on their needs but the faithful do all woith sense of duty and committment and crib if things fall short so Choose what you want  

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  11. HoneyLaaLa - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by HoneyLaaLa Jul 30th, 2012 at 12:13AM

    "what they want" is what they have to figure out. and if i (or anyone else) doesnt seem to make you happy JUST LEAVE. dont cheat theres never an excuse for that.


  12. indigowitch - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by indigowitch Aug 3rd, 2012 at 10:08AM

    Those who rush into marriages without knowing what they want in a partner and yet to figure it out, basically do themselves in!!!!! No sympathy for idiots like that! So they do should not cry oh they are so unhappy blah blah when they made the stupid choice to marry someone before really knowing them or themselves for that regard to know what they really want in a partner, and if the partner then falls short of that "want" then it is because they were too stupid to really get to know a person before marriage that could have given them a change to walk out before it was too late!


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  13. AYETeam - 26-30 years old

    Posted by AYETeam on July 29th, 2012 at 11:20 PM

    I was fiercely loyal to my husband of 7 years, partner of 9. We have two girls aged 3 and 2. He has been in prison most of their little lives. He went away when the first was 6 months old and came out for 5 months before going away again. In that 5 month gap. I fell pregnant a second time. While he was away the second time I found out he had a sexual relationship with a woman he had met at our first daughters christening (she was the waitress). When I found out what happened I wasn't sure what to do with it. I was still visiting him every weekend and running his business. I stayed until he got out (march this year) I cooperated to assist him to get home detention. He was approved. I asked him to move out, he refused. My daughters and I moved out and even now, months later I still feel guilty for going. Guilty for not giving my girls the normal family life. I think at least they won't see their dad be awful to their mum.

    I am not going to say men suck. I am sure there are lovely ones out there. I just made a really crappy choice. It took me a long time to learn that just because you put in your all doesn't mean the other person will too.

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  14. HoneyLaaLa - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by HoneyLaaLa Jul 30th, 2012 at 12:12AM

    Thats so truue. and i completely suppport your decision in leaving. 100 percent. My mom was a single mother. it was me her and my sister always. and we have been threw a lot but it has made us stronger. and i always thank her for the decision SHE made by leaving my father. i lover her so much and even tho im grown up without a father she gave me everything. and yes, i think a woman will always give 110 of her and never get the same thing back. but i mean the heart wants what it wants and its sad not getting the same loyalty in return.


  15. indigowitch - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by indigowitch Aug 3rd, 2012 at 10:11AM

    How can you give your children a normal family life with a sick and twisted f---u---c---k like that for a father? Seriously REALITY CHECK, you are better off without him, he will only mess your kids up some more...aka go dysfunctional family!


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  16. chucklez33 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chucklez33 on July 29th, 2012 at 11:44 PM

    so tue

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  17. PandaLover1121 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by PandaLover1121 on August 1st, 2012 at 9:37 AM

    soooo true

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  18. babygodzilla - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by babygodzilla on August 2nd, 2012 at 5:47 PM

    I cant agree, as far as you know thats all youve seen but that doesnt mean thats all there is.

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