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Rosalinn - 36-40 years old - female

Posted by Rosalinn
on July 29th, 2012 at 6:30 PM


Let me just say, it takes a lot, and I do mean A LOT to **** me off! But this weekend I wanted to strangle someone who I consider to be a good friend. And it's not because of anything she's done to me (although, she does have PLENTY of criticism to spread my way) but it's the way she treats her husband.

Her husband is in the military. He left a couple of weeks ago for a six-week stint in TX, then he's off to Afghanistan for a year. This is his fourth tour. He is a young, vibrant man who is couragous, caring, kind, and yes, sexual. All you have to do is look at the man to know he's a sexual being, he oozes it. Now, before I start my rant, let me say that I am not attracted to him. This is not that kind of confession. But I am very grateful for what he and countless others sacrifice for our country.

Friday night -- arrive at friend's house. I'm there for a grand total of 15 minutes before she sits down and starts with "Guess what J's been up to again!!!" I ask what, and she tells me he's been downloading **** again. She's outraged. She has gone into his ... hmmm ... amazon maybe?? ... account to pull up everything he's been downloading. She shoves a 7 page document in my hands with this righteous, holier-than-thou attitude of "see what a bastard I'm married to!!"

So, I'm sitting on her sofa calmly looking over these purchases (which, apparently, most of them were free). As I'm looking, I'm taking mental notes for myself "hmm, that one looks good...interesting...oh dang, I've read that! :)" All the while she's waiting for me to show signs of being equally appalled. I can't, and I won't. She has a husband who would bite off his right arm to have her pay him some attention. When he doesn't get it (which is never from what I can gather) he does what any other normal, red-blooded man (OR WOMAN) would do!!!! And then, to top it all off, he's publicly shamed for it!!

I haven't had the opportunity since I was a teenager, but I find it an incredible turn-on to think about sharing erotica or **** with a man I'm comfortable with. I wanted to scream at her for being what I now know to be a 'refuser', but instead, I attempted to take the tacful approach. I tried, very calmly, to communicate with her about what he's feeling. What his side of this story is all about. Needless to say, that didn't go over very well. She just continued bashing him infront of me and all of our kids. My kids...whatever. But her kids??? That's their father!!! As far as they understand, he's off at war and could be shot any day!!!

Oh the whole thing just royally pissed me off! DAMMIT

I would not be the least bit surprised if I find out in a year when he gets back that he's found someone who will appreciate him for who he is and what he has to offer. Actually, I kindof hope he does. I know -she's- the one that's my friend, but no person, male or female, ever deserves to be shamed in any way for what they feel.

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  1. mikemcneil - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by mikemcneil on July 29th, 2012 at 6:34 PM

    Yay for you!

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  2. Posted by An EP User on July 30th, 2012 at 1:41 PM

    I don't blame you one bit for being pissed. I'm pissed at her just reading your story.

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  3. JonBrutus - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by JonBrutus on September 25th, 2012 at 4:50 PM

    As a veteran and someone in a sexless marriage I can easily say that I know exactly why he's enjoying ****, been there, do that! And you are spot on about wanting to be appreciated!!

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