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Dai200 - 18-21 years old - male

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Posted by Dai200
on August 5th, 2012 at 3:35 PM


I dont know if this is a confession but i have to write it down and maybe get some advice or something .......

Well ... my grandfather, who lives in Japan just died today ... apparently he'd been suffering with a illness for a long time but never told anyone about it because he was the type of person who didn't want any help from anyone ... he was independent. But the thing is the last few months my parents have been acting like idiots ... the fight about everything and once my father actually hit my mother .. so I moved out .... but now my parents are blaming me for my grandfathers death ..but was it my fault? 

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  1. hamoy - 26-30 years old

    Posted by hamoy on August 5th, 2012 at 3:39 PM

    Why would it be your fault you did not do any thing wrong .. you Parents seem to have problems they need to work out .. .

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  2. Dai200 - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Dai200 Aug 5th, 2012 at 3:40PM

    they do .. but hey blame me for most things in their lives ..

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  3. hamoy - 26-30 years old

    Reply by hamoy Aug 5th, 2012 at 3:52PM

    If you know that you are not doing anything wrong then you can tell them .. choose a time when they are quite and talk to them about how you feel , and tell them that it hurts you to be blamed for everything .. if that does not work .. seek the help of some family member to talk to them ..to help you out

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  4. LiesFaknessNosy2FaceMiserable - 26-30 years old

    Posted by LiesFaknessNosy2FaceMiserable on August 5th, 2012 at 4:00 PM

    Maybe because they see that you meddle into things that should be non of your buisness,or maybe because they see how selfish you are and when grandpa was dying you were to worried about yourself. Or maybe because they see that behind the scenes your aimlessly creating all these things. Heard when anyone is around you,a bad ora' releases,and everybody starts to fighting,angry,or something bad happens.(bad spirts bounce off)unless rather it's just easier to call it "drama". We're sure your on the sidelines being the strife stirrer,that is your legacy. :O  

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  5. OsageAphrodite - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by OsageAphrodite Aug 5th, 2012 at 4:13PM

    "Nice assessment".....said no psychiatrist ever.

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  6. OsageAphrodite - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by OsageAphrodite on August 5th, 2012 at 4:17 PM

    Your parents are trying to come to terms anger plays a huge part in that....you didn't cause your Grandfathers death and they don't really believe that either,there just hurting and taking it out on you.Don't judge them for it,it's just grief.I'm sorry that on top of your grief that you are being blamed as well.Things will get better I promise.

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  7. Dai200 - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Dai200 Aug 5th, 2012 at 4:19PM

    Thank you .... but hey've always been this way ... they really do blame me ...

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  8. OsageAphrodite - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by OsageAphrodite Aug 5th, 2012 at 4:23PM

    I'm sorry to hear that.I know that it sucks rite now but things wont be like this forever.Here soon you will be out on your own and be able to make yourself happy....

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