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babybump101 - 13-15 years old - female

Posted by babybump101
on August 9th, 2012 at 7:33 AM


On the 4th of august 2012  i found out that i was pregnant! my boyfriend started looking at abortion right away and telling me that what i got to do! but i ws unsure i couldnt believe this ws happening and i still cant! I cant tell my mum and dad as they wil kick me out!!
but im really unsure wht to do for the best,but i know if i have n abortion that i will regret it for the rest of my life! but if i keep it i wil lose my boyfriend and will have to do it all on my own!


whaat should i do???
HELPPPPP pleeaseee

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  1. Ethereal345 - 31-35 years old

    Posted by Ethereal345 on August 9th, 2012 at 7:37 AM

    First of all you must tell your parents. They can't kick you out, your only fourteen! You can put your baby up for adoption, you don't have to get an abortion.

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  3. Zenmisstress - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Zenmisstress on August 9th, 2012 at 7:38 AM

    Go to a family planning place in the uk we have connextions they can help you with what you want to do but being 14 i would say you shouldn't keep it , it will screw your life up , people don't say things like this on tv shows for no reason :L but I was pregnant when I was 15 and I'm so glad I didn't keep it , it hurts at first and you feel like you can never get over it but it will be fine , and when ur 14 love isn't forever at that age hope this helps xxx

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  4. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  5. Zenny123 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Zenny123 on August 9th, 2012 at 7:38 AM

    If you are unsure then don't let anyone else decide for you. Do talk to your mom, its not something you can hide forever and once it is out in the open it will be better.



    I know that many women who get abortions do regret it for ever, so good for you for knowing and understanding that. The other concern is you are very young and there are risk related to that. don't hide this and all of a sudden end up in labour, that could be VERY dangerous for you and the baby. You likely need to be seen by a doctor asap and discuss risks.



    Finally DO not let someone else decide for you. Listen and consider advice, but know it is your choice.

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  6. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  7. Howtobesincere - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Howtobesincere on August 9th, 2012 at 7:42 AM

    i agree, you hav to tell your parents. i promise you¨ll feel better after. they can support you in your decision. Its very hard to live as a singel mum, and specially when your only fourteen. I found out i was pregnant when i was 19 and decided abortion was the right choice for me, you have to find the right choice for u! Send me an email if you need to talk :) / Zanna

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  8. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  9. LemGristman - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by LemGristman on August 9th, 2012 at 7:45 AM

    I agree with the other comments, but if your boyfriend is not willing to help out by keeping the baby you should consider dumping him. If he says he loves or cares for you he doesn't.

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  10. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  11. babybump101 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by babybump101 on August 9th, 2012 at 7:45 AM

    I could never ever forgive myself if i get rid of this but its most probz for the best!!

    I really cant tell my mum and dad they will hate me.

    also i could never hand my baby over to someone else, i know that might sound harsh but i could never ever ever do that!!

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  12. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  13. darkthundercloud - 26-30 years old

    Reply by darkthundercloud Aug 9th, 2012 at 8:17AM

    they will be mad at first, of course that is to be expected...sweety you are 14, no parent will be happy to hear the news....BUT they are your parents, and unlike your BF, they'll always have your back. another thing, whatever you decide, do it for yourself and no one else...

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  14. Epjane - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Epjane on August 9th, 2012 at 8:01 AM

    Get rid, honestly babe there nothing to feel bad about, you'll feel worse if you keep it believe me especially at 14 and what kid wants a dad that bolts, u won't have a relationship easily with baggage at that age, no career nothing it's not even a grain of sand yet! Besides u have to tell your parents either way, the doctors have to tell them because of your age! What were you both thinking? Stay safe don't be a sad statistic, go to young mums sites and see how easy you think it is, you were mature enough to have sex now be mature enough to do the rite thing! For u and the cells your growing.

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  15. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  16. AnkiPan - 18-21 years old

    Posted by AnkiPan on August 9th, 2012 at 8:17 AM

    Maybe you shouldn't have asked yourself before you had sex, "If I'm not old enough to handle a baby, I'm probably not old enough to have babies." Ugh, you're just a kid. Children having sex... disgusting

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  17. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  18. mpde - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by mpde on August 9th, 2012 at 8:26 AM

    You 14 the boy friend you have now most probably won't be your boyfriend in 5 yrs time. Your parents have to know about the baby. Sorry.

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  19. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

  20. Posted by An EP User on August 9th, 2012 at 8:30 AM

    If you can not tell your parents, find some places where you live that work with teenage pregnancy and tell them.



    I had an abortion...and regret it to this day. More often than not, women regret abortions. If you can not give the baby up, your parents will be the ones helping to take care of the child. I highly doubt they will disown you over this.



    They will be mad, and disappointed, but if they are good parents, they will stick by you.



    If you are wanting to be a mother, your life is going to change with or without the support of the father. Time to buckle down, face your fears and grow up fast. Good luck child!

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  21. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 19th, 2014 at 11:41PM

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