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Obsidiann - 16-17 years old - female

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Posted by Obsidiann
on August 21st, 2012 at 4:30 AM


Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever have that best friend who I can entrust with my secrets and actually be able to tell them what really bothers me. (I didn't believe in the concept of best friend for...many years). I wish I could have one. I know I can find one because there are some who are already willing to do that for me, but not I to them. I just don't have that connection...and it's just...hard to be that open. I'm just that selective when it comes to letting anyone close. Some have...manage to gain my trust without even doing much. They display...qualities that I look for, though they aren't around much. Sigh...one day, I will find that person/people who I can just spill it all out. And be extremely honest...Sometimes it's just easier to be by myself.

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  1. anonyabusiness - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by anonyabusiness on August 21st, 2012 at 4:38 AM

    Talk to God,

    People will never understand in any case,

    When they don't understand they usually bolt in fear and do stupid things such as pointing gingers, gossip and calling names....

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  2. PuddleJumping - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by PuddleJumping on August 21st, 2012 at 7:05 AM

    There are a lot of calloused people out there, really hurt and unpredictable in their responses. And if you are still child like and hold onto innocence in some parts of your heart that you have kept hidden from others, It becomes hard to decide who you should open up to, It seems to be somewhat normal to open up to a lot of people, But you must guard your heart if you want to keep it soft and pliable and not bitter. It is a Gold mine to keep a heart filled with love and innocence, According to law of attraction what you focus on the most you attract, so if you focus on the undesireable characteristic of people you'll only attract more undesireable. You might have to do a little exercise like how would it feel to have a friend that I can totally trust and value's my friendship and also has a soft heart. Let that emotion grow and you'll draw more desireable. Introverts sometime make the best friends, If you can get a meeting,lol

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  3. katlvzrob - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by katlvzrob on August 21st, 2012 at 9:06 AM

    i understand every word u have just said there i feel exactly the same way i dont have anyone at all to spill my guts out to its hard not havin that one person i mean i have my fella but thats not the same im talkin bout a long lasting friendship no one ever lasts with me ppl just use an abuse me am too soft i need tha one friend tha u can talk to wenever who wont do a runner when u actually do have problems

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  4. Ginteru1 - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Ginteru1 on August 21st, 2012 at 9:32 AM

    My best friend used to be my worst enemy. We hated each others guts back then.

    Friendship can form in the most unexpected ways.

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  5. Obsidiann - 16-17 years old - female

    Reply by Obsidiann Aug 21st, 2012 at 2:07PM

    Definitely.

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