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Ashida - 22-25 years old - female

Posted by Ashida
on August 30th, 2012 at 8:21 AM


it makes me very sad at this moment...
i come here(EP) to make as many friend as i can, i dont mind if people being harsh on their way as long as they not hurting me...for the first month here, i feels that i have come to the rite site, the site which i can share my idea, my thought, my experience and what i feel honestly...

but, this few days, as i gain more friends, it hurts my feeling when i see the way they respond to my questions...in Question and Answer section, of course it is specialize to post a question and state your answer to that, but why were they mad when i post my question....there are restriction to post how many question that you want to post, if you dont like that, its easy, just ignore it....there is always a reason for the question to exist.

I love when a friend make a joke, i like joking with them too, and i know as we come from many different country, the ethic of joking would be different too, there may be a 'soft joke', 'pretty joke', 'numb joke', 'stupid joke', and sometimes 'hard joke'...but as long as it was a joke, i can accept it....but i am totally cant accept rude response.....

yes, i am a sensitive person, easy to shed tears and traditional in some ways, it is because i've been raised and grown up to be that way...i am not going to create problems to anyone...just wanna be here for fun, friends, ideas, share opinions, to hear and to be heard....

People always condemned me for my broken english...you dont know how hard my life be just because of this english create by human being...in my country, its hard to get a job if you weak in english, is that fair?? to be honest, i always hope english are not exist....
i am not using english all the time in my life, that is why i dont really mind for my grammar and whatever it is...what is the reason for a language existence?? is it for communication??...as long as i got what you mean, and you got me, that's it....as simple as that.....


Please do not misunderstood with my confession, i am not seeking for any attention here, enough with the attention i got in my real life....i just want to be honest here, i dont want to wear any mask here.....


That's all for this time,
        Ashida 


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  1. cagedinside - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by cagedinside on August 30th, 2012 at 8:35 AM

    I feel like i can relate. When i went on here it was because i felt i needed to get my bottled up emotions out some how. . . and it felt nice to state my opinion and not feel my everyday anxiety. But i also feel like you shouldn't hate language but embrace it. It is a way to communicate and express yourself like on here, and it shows the uniqueness of each and every culture. It's hard at first to understand and pronounce but it's worth it in the end. And don't feel bad for asking questions, it is human nature to ask questions and explore posibilities. That is how we grow. I'm not trying to judge or chang e your opinion, it's just that i related to this confess and felt i needed to comment, i hope i did not offend you and that everything works out. Take care.

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  2. Ashida - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Ashida Aug 30th, 2012 at 8:40AM

    yeah, i got you cage...thanks for the advice..i dont hate it, it just that i cant understand why somebody needs to bring it up when there is not a big deal neither... no worry, you are not offended me..:)

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  3. UnderEli - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by UnderEli on August 30th, 2012 at 8:36 AM

    Don't mind anyone who talks down to you for any reason. E.P. has its fair share of morons and nincompoops who have nothing better to do than to try to step upon someone else's faults for no other reason than to raise their own egos. Keep being honest about yourself and those who truly care will shine through. Thanks for taking the initiative to write this and bring it to everyone's attention. It takes guts and courage, and not a lot of people have enough to do what you've done. Best of luck here. Keep your chin up and have fun.

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  4. Ashida - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by Ashida Aug 30th, 2012 at 8:43AM

    thanks UnderEli....i just feel that everyone has their own responsibility when they are in a community, and this is only my small responsibility in EP.... Have fun to you too....:)

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