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abritishgirl - 18-21 years old - female

Posted by abritishgirl
on October 10th, 2012 at 9:06 PM


What do you do when your husband works nights? how can I sleep in the same bed and live in the same house with a guy I can't grab hold of when I have bad dream or get cold?

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  1. OverIt2 - 56-60 years old

    Posted by OverIt2 on October 10th, 2012 at 9:46 PM

    I've been marrried 32 years to a man who now works at night! I've never been so happy! No snoring, no blanket stealing, no threat of sex...LOL But, that's just me after the marital fray of decades together. I used to feel like you do so I empathize.

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  2. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 18th, 2014 at 8:11AM

  3. abritishgirl - 70+ years old - female

    Reply by abritishgirl Oct 10th, 2012 at 9:49PM

    I want sex, i want morning sex again, I want his stupid breakfasts, I want the warmth of a mans body next to me, I want to slip my feet between his legs, I liked that... I miss it...

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  4. Baddaddy59 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Baddaddy59 on October 10th, 2012 at 10:08 PM

    get a job working the same hours as him, live your live on the same time line

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  5. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 18th, 2014 at 8:11AM

  6. PoetryNEmotion - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by PoetryNEmotion on November 11th, 2012 at 8:57 PM

    it is most severe.

    i hate sleeping alone.

    always did.

    my ex worked full-time nights.

    he loved it that way.

    sleeping when i was up. awake when i was not.

    one of the many reasons why we are not together anymore

    cuddling pillows helps. taking herbal teas with passion flowers helps. even dogs or small children cuddling helps. but nothing replaces him next to you ever.

    is he going to be on nights forever?

    what will you settle for?

    only you can sleep alone. only you can suffer. only he can change it. hugsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss......

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  7. Anonymous

    Reply by An EP User Dec 18th, 2014 at 8:11AM

  8. abritishgirl - 70+ years old - female

    Reply by abritishgirl Mar 27th, 2013 at 1:31PM

    Wow I never even saw this comment.... ssoooorrrry.... he worked nights until he got his new job :) we're together !

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  9. PoetryNEmotion - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by PoetryNEmotion Mar 27th, 2013 at 3:42PM

    Wonderful! :)

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