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I hate it when a man calls me "baby".

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charlottesbed - 41-45 years old - female

Posted by charlottesbed
on November 15th, 2012 at 11:10 AM


I don't know why I hate it, except maybe most men do it before they get to know me, so it comes across fake and disrespectful. Like some 1950's style gangster or some silly teenage boy, not like a man who cares a hoot about anything except that I have breasts, hips and holes. 

Charlotte

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  1. charlottesbed - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by charlottesbed on November 15th, 2012 at 11:20 AM

    I have no idea what you mean......



    Maybe I am too old for slang!



    Charlotte.

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  2. sweetwolf - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by sweetwolf on November 15th, 2012 at 11:26 AM

    sometimes i do but dont mean anything by it

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  3. charlottesbed - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by charlottesbed Nov 15th, 2012 at 11:28AM

    Oh I don't think men in general think about it. it's just something culturally they do. But I think they'd be surprised how women see it!

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  4. sweetwolf - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by sweetwolf Nov 15th, 2012 at 11:30AM

    probably we would ill have to rethink my talking

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  5. BrideofKain - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by BrideofKain on November 15th, 2012 at 11:38 AM

    Well it is like they say: Don't let a man call you 'baby' unless you want to be treated like one.

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  6. IDoNotLikeYou - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by IDoNotLikeYou on November 15th, 2012 at 3:36 PM

    But once you exclude the breasts, hips, and holes from consideration, what about you matters at all?

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  7. charlottesbed - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by charlottesbed Nov 15th, 2012 at 3:38PM

    Well, that tells me about you! LOL!

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  8. Posted by An EP User on November 30th, 2012 at 2:05 PM

    can you make me a samich, please ?

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  9. Posted by An EP User on December 4th, 2012 at 7:33 AM

    You know, I know exactly what you mean! Problem is, it is sooooo easy to fall into the habit of saying it. Which can happen if I talk to a girl who calls me that, and then I start calling her that back. Then you meet someone new, and especially on the internet, it's so easy to keep using the pet names. Sorry for any of you that I may have offended out there. I would never call a girl baby so early in real life....

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  10. EscondidoSecreto - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by EscondidoSecreto on December 5th, 2012 at 3:02 PM

    and you have sweweeet ones, I have to add... lol...



    I would not think anyone would call you "baby" with anything but respect and awe... some girls have a quality that makes us guys try to call you the sweetest compliment that we can think of I guess... it is the "magnetic" quality of how you are and how you manage to present a portion of you in your writing... maybe the apology would only be on how they were not very imaginative when trying a compliment (unsuccesfully hehe)... but not on trying to give a demeaning meaning to you r what you represent... I will call you sweetie, hot, gorgeous, and maybe "little brainiac": as a complinment...lol (I love me the brains too)



    Kiss

    Escondido

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  11. eroticfind - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by eroticfind on December 7th, 2012 at 8:39 PM

    I call my wife "babe" and she doesn't seem to care.... she calls me "babe" as well. There is another woman on ep that doesn't like "sweety" and I use that term as well, but only in a most endearing way... I mean nothing derogatory only high regard. My nieces and female friends and one gay friend are all "sweety" to me. But I do understand your position and respect it. Thanks for the add, Charlotte.

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  12. EpicOddity - 41-45 years old

    Posted by EpicOddity on February 8th, 2013 at 11:37 PM

    i hate that too

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  13. EpicOddity - 41-45 years old

    Posted by EpicOddity on February 8th, 2013 at 11:48 PM

    i hate that too

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