I can't stand my girlfriend

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chandler26 - 22-25 years old - male

Posted by chandler26
on November 20th, 2012 at 5:25 PM

I don't know why this keeps happening to me. For the past few years whenever I get into a relationship, about a month into it, I start to feel bored and extremely annoyed with whoever I'm with. I would never consider myself to be a "player" because I really want to be with someone who I'm able to get along with for an extremely long time. I know I'm capable of it to a point, as my longest relationship lasted a year and a half, but I don't know why I can't manage to tolerate someone for more than a month now. I've never been on the receiving end of a breakup because I think I get bored way before they realize what's going on. I always try to do new things with them, but nothing seems to work. Just had to get that out. Thanks to whoever reads this.

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  1. ImperfectPerfection - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by ImperfectPerfection on November 20th, 2012 at 5:38 PM

    Try changing up your "type" in women perhaps? Sounds like you want someone who is fun, and can keep you up and going. :)

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  2. chandler26 - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by chandler26 Nov 20th, 2012 at 5:40PM

    As bad as it sounds, I want someone who is like my first girlfriend. We always got along and had the same exact sense of humor. I am over her and everything, but I think there's a part in everyone that misses their first love.


  3. ImperfectPerfection - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by ImperfectPerfection on November 20th, 2012 at 5:49 PM

    I know what you mean, dont be with someone who isn't fulfilling your needs. You're not the one to blame. Im not sure if this helps, but if I were you i'd break up with her and keep your options open. What I mean by that is, dont jump into a relationship. Do what I call "talking".. Just get to know someone. Their thoughts, dreams, humor, and just everything that makes them who they are. From that, you should be able to tell if they are what you are looking for.. :)

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